davidbanner99@ wrote:So far as genetics is concerned, surely it"s a trade-off? Nicola Tesla etc etc
David, while you're being nerdy I think you would benefit from reading any of Richard Dawkins' books, but specifically The Selfish Gene. Tesla's children, if he'd had any, certainly wouldn't have inherited his acquired knowledge and would have had the same chance as anyone else of being born learning-disabled.
I believe social awkwardness to be largely a matter of parenting. You can point to a family of four and say three of them are okay but only this one is permanently belligerent, and I'll show you the family scapegoat. I'm thinking of my own family of origin as well as a relative's offspring.
I looked at your very long questionnaire thingy and though I might have a go, but as I scrolled through it and came to the key (that I presume I was supposed to carry out myself) I stopped. (That's a major 'AGREE' to question 5.) I may print it and try it on the husband, though.