by ellla » Fri Oct 11, 2013 7:05 pm
Emotional Incest?
Yes.. because you are maturing, and as such you are naturally creating personal boundaries - which it appears you are having trouble getting your mum to respect.
When an parent refuses to respect or acknowledge their child's privacy when undressed this is certainly a form of abuse - or "emotional incest" as you choose to term it.
The fact your mum agrees with nudity within the home - is neither here nor there. You have reached the age of puberty and with these changes have a right to have your own individual privacy & values respected.
Discuss this with your mum, while in the company of a mutual friend or a relative, who understands.
This way your mum will be forced ( and she should be ) to take the matter seriously.
It may be her house but as a member of the family you too are entitled to feel comfortable with your home environment.
Mother needs to acknowledge this.