Mental health

I'm hoping for some answers here as I'm feeling really let down by everything. I will try to keep it brief but any advice would be great. I have accessed help from the community mental health team for an eating disorder & it's what I've been living like since I was 14. I was assessed and dx with EDnos..it's the purge type & i have a history of excessive exercise also. The purging is between 10-15 times a day Anyway to cut a long story short I needed an assessment from a psychologist to see if I could have therapy but there are other issues aswell. I have been drinking too much alcohol and acting impulsively and have problems in my relationship because of this. I have always been a very impulsive person and get hooked on ideas easily. I throw myself into things and get hooked until the idea goes wrong & then it's onto something else. Anyway I had to explain this as this is what I told the psychologist who assessed me as I was hoping for some kind of diagnosis. She never mentioned a diagnosis though just the fact that I'm unsuitable for therapy. I was then given a number to contact to go through the alcohol issues & discharged from mental health services. I have no idea where to go from here & i think I fit in with bpd. Any advice on what to do from here. I've spoke to the community drug team and I'm getting off the drink for sure. I drink a bottle of wine most nights but only in the night. Please can someone help me. It's my first post on here