human wrote: A drug is an easy fix and isn't considered, "the proper way", but does that mean that it doesn't exist? Alcohol lowers inhibition. Are there any drugs that can lower inhibition and make interaction easier? Or do I need therapy of some sort?
Yes, there are a ton of "crutches" available. Alcohol lowers inhibition and another common escape is marijuana. Or a person can seek prescription drugs to alter their brain chemistry.
Even well intentioned, artificially lowering inhibitions does not fix the problem. Instead, it sets up a downward spiral where in order to socialize you must get high. Of course when first starting out everyone thinks they will make some friends, learn to be social and quit using the crutch anytime they like. It is not usually a lack of intelligence, rather a lack of wisdom (experience) that results in people choosing such a path.
And beware of anyone that tries to offer you the "perfect drug" that can solve your problem. There are therapists that truly believe they can prescribe a pill and work with you to help you so that you never experience discomfort. They believe they can help wean you off the crutch. Well intentioned, but ignorant to the pill for every ill culture.
WHAT YOU NEED is to build your self-confidence. Sure, a good therapist using CBT might be able to offer you that, but there are other ways. Join the military, they will build your confidence. Set some goals, go to the gym, hire a personal trainer to help build your confidence.
What goals do you even have currently? Do you have any goals that target building your confidence?