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Yes I agree with tokeless, only you can decide if the divorce is the right way to go. Sounds to me like you are trying to rationalise everything about the relationship and where or not you should try again. Being logical and practical is fantastic to a point, at the end of the day when you are talki...

Fantastic effort - almost 10 months - that's brilliant! Two points: 1. You said you don't think you have improved - often our improvements are just small steps every day or so that in the long term become big steps. Because of this its often hard to see improvements. Try writing in a journal about y...

Good luck will send you lots of supportive vibes for you to stay on your chosen road.

Hi Thanks for sharing - it was brave to write all that down. I think Christmas and the holidays have such unrealistic expectations around them that everyone is always on edge. I know I am always glad when its all over and done with for another year. In our house we have started to focus on two main ...

Hi I agree with the what they other have already wrote but just wanted to add - its a journey to let go of needing our mothers approval, and the more you focus on your own needs and trusting your own decisions the easier it gets. The older we get the easier it gets to let go (we just don't have as m...

Merry Christmas everyone! Hope you have a wonderful time over the next week, regardless of whether or not you celebrate Christmas or not. Sending everyone here love and happiness for the final few days of the year and hoping for all the 2017 brings many moments to celebrate and be grateful for.

I think you need to make sure you are living your life, doing the things that make you happy and that you enjoy. If you are ready to move on you will, if you are not just yet that's ok. I can't say if you should wait - only you can do that and only you know the extent of the feelings between the two...

Hi distressedstudent, I always remind myself when I get down on myself about something from the past " that everyone always does the best they can at any given time with the tools they had at their disposal at that time" Every time I counteract it with the famous but I should have ..... th...

Its starting to warn up. Summer hasn't really hit but its coming! Just checked the forecast and will have 5 days above 35 degrees Celsius, starting this Friday. Christmas day will be 37 degrees Celsius.

Spending some girl time today with my daughter

HI I agree with what the others have said before me. You are the only one who can change your perspective. And normally its your perspective that makes you happy or sad. For me when I have gotten down about my life, it is because I have started to see all the things that are wrong with it. This crea...

Hi Love this post. And have loved ready what makes others happy, thanks for sharing everyone!

Things that make me happy are spending time with my family, travel (would love to do so much more of this) and walking around dust so I can see the beautiful sunsets that we can have during summer.

HI Can feel your frustration. Some ideas that I have that might work are 1. have your tried to physically go to your workplace and ask for the money? 2. Are you in a union, if so contact them for help and 3. Do you have the promise in written or evidence that you worked for the wages that they are n...

Good luck with your journey. While I know what you are going through is not easy, you seem to be going about it the right way. Seeking help and working with people who understand what you are going through is so important in the recovery. Take one day at a time and focus on your strengths and with t...

Love this post! And I couldn't agree more, the more I focus on happiness as my number one goal, the easier my life gets. In this journey to pursue happiness I am being reminded regularly that if it truly feels good and makes you happy then its the right thing to do. If it feels bad or makes you feel...