Am I boring or are they stupid?

Postby schmut » Mon Jan 02, 2012 1:32 pm

Hi,

over the last couple of weeks I've been noticing that when I try to speak about a specific subject OR my feelings about something/someone, there is pretty much never an answer......... :roll:

So here I am, learned myself to shut up and build up my frustrations. I don't like it AT ALL, so now I'm wondering why this always happens.

Psychology is my passion (I REALLY like observing people and reading their emotions) so maybe this is a part of why I think so much about it.
When I joke with an other psychstudent, he always gets it. So I think that the first problem has to do something with the nature of the joke (psychjokes or knowledge-jokes). But again, I'm not sure.

But now, what's up with the "I don't give a **** how u feel'-attitude of my friends? Are they all people that just wait for u to talk and then go on with their own conversation without listening or do they really simply not give a ****?

I know u can't figure this one out without knowing me, but if someone has an idea or info that would help me alot too.

Guesses, questions, all is welcome. I'm racking my brains! Whhyyyy??
It only happens with these 2 subjects. Please give me an anwser, cause I swear if this topic stays unanswered, Imma find myself some friends in the forest. Deers, wolfs, I don't even care...


Thanks already (I hope)
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Postby simonr » Wed Jan 04, 2012 9:02 am

You asked is if it's one thing or another - but I wonder if it's a third thing... it's not you or your friends... it's the topics.

If psych students laugh and others don't, that should tell you something!
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Postby MSCP » Sun Jan 22, 2012 10:58 am

I agree with simonr.
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Postby L3XB0X » Thu Jan 26, 2012 1:29 pm

It's probably what the other two said... Just the subjects, but maybe the forest animals will enjoy your jokes!
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Postby MorF500 » Wed Feb 15, 2012 5:37 am

Ive noticed this to, thats why i dislike many ppl
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Postby George L. » Mon Feb 20, 2012 2:40 am

So.... do you think it's your material or your audience?

Anyway, you shouldn't mind, just be aware of the 50-50% rule, some people will like what you say, some won't. Don't waste energy over analyzing each person you come across, do what you do with passion and honesty, that's all it matters at the end.
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