Hi, I'm new here, I'm just going to start off by saying quite how desperate I am here.
My best friend, who I love more than life is under severe depression right now, I can't quite put into words how bad it is, but, she can't get the thoughts of death out of her head she's very angry with life and seems frustrated too. She is most definately suicidal and has a plan of how she will do it (because she is sure she will). She doesn't want to seek help, or even get better, she knows it may pass, but, she doesn't really want it to, currently she is just doing some stuff that 'she has to do', before going through with it, and quite frankly, I'm scared shitless, I personally can't live without her.
I've had similiar thoughts to what she describes, but what she is going through is something else, and something I'll never understand.
She will hardly talk to me right now, she doesn't want me to beg, or even to try and get her to seek help, i've had to force myself not to, because that would mean her running away from me.
She's had doctors who think she's bi-polar, she thinks she's bi-polar, and so does her shrink, but he has never diagnosed her.
This came on very suddenly, a few days ago.
I'm asking for help here, the only thing I can do is talk to her, we're very far away physically.
I would really appreciate some advice on what to say and what not to say, I don't care if all I can do is prolong it till it passes.
Any help most appreciated.