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#60

Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 6:35 am

And he assumes I care wat he thinks another mistake I'm a little annoyed now that I'm focused on his problems. I'll stop now
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#61

Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 6:52 am

Calm now, I care little if I'm wrong I care little if he's wrong and I care little if your wrong. I care a great deal and massively about finding a solution to this problem. I'm starting to consider the long shot solutions. Anythings worth a try as long as its not harmfull
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#62

Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 7:24 am

Richard I'm sorry I hurt you I have a little remorse now I know truth is painful, I'm not a sadist I just enjoy ironic humour and your futile attempts to harm me are ironic it's not personal
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#63

Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 7:51 am

The ironic humour is why I kept typing lol after saying tru things about you. I'm blind to hurting people sometimes. My fault I'm sorry
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#64

Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 8:04 am

I'm wrong (I'm brave enough to admit it) I knew I was causing you pain because I was saying ouch. I guess I was enjoying that you were trying to hurt me and it was backfiring on you.
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#65

Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 8:49 am

Last post about Richard. Like me dislike me I don't care but here's a thought for u to ponder.
Considering the possibility that your wrong makes you right more often
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#66

Postby quietvoice » Mon Nov 11, 2019 1:27 pm

Icanbeatthis wrote:Richard I'm sorry I hurt you

I can 100% guarantee that you did not hurt Richard.

Let me tell you something about people who talk too much . . . or rather, I'll let others tell you.
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#67

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Mon Nov 11, 2019 1:49 pm

Icanbeatthis wrote:...and your futile attempts to harm me are ironic it's not personal


You think that that I attempted to harm you.

Well, there is not much that I can do with that. This is an anonymous forum. You were never in any danger of being harmed. People can have differences of opinions. If you think that someone is trying to harm you just because they do not agree with you then it must be a very scary world for you. Best of luck defeating those monsters.
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#68

Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 2:57 pm

Criticism and devaluing me are attempts to harm me that failed and no u can't do much with that
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#69

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Mon Nov 11, 2019 3:09 pm

Icanbeatthis wrote:Criticism and devaluing me are attempts to harm me that failed and no u can't do much with that


I did not criticize or devalue YOU. It might help if you work on separating out your ideas or opinions from who you are as a person. A critique of your opinion or a difference in opinion does not mean someone is trying to harm you.

I asked your opinion. Specifically I asked how do you reconcile calling this 20 year old smart and normal yet refer to them as a child. I asked if the person appeared to be a 4-year old. It was a discussion point.

Taking that as an attempt to criticize, devalue, or harm you is utter nonsense. It might be a reason you suffer such stress and anxiety in such a peaceful country. There is no one out to harm you, but even a conversation where you might be asked to justify a claim you consider somehow to be an attack.
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Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 3:35 pm

I'll b specific, earlier after I recommended walnuts u criticised things that I've never even mentioned. The devaluation attempts are on going. I completely agree u can't do much with that u can't even harm me in the first place
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Mon Nov 11, 2019 3:47 pm

Icanbeatthis wrote: I completely agree... u can't even harm me in the first place


But you think that I have attempted to harm you. That is the issue.

You see a person that disagrees with your opinion as an attempt at harm. It is irrelevant whether harm is possible. It is that you believe the attempt is taking place.

No one, including me, is even trying to harm you.
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Postby quietvoice » Mon Nov 11, 2019 3:53 pm

Icanbeatthis wrote:I'll b specific, earlier after I recommended walnuts u criticised things that I've never even mentioned. The devaluation attempts are on going. I completely agree u can't do much with that u can't even harm me in the first place


-1- Please note that there are two different posters that you seem to have combined into one.

-2- Refer to this post of mine.

I offered advice to the person who started this thread. You have not bothered to read the advice, and then you come back saying that you are being attacked for being asked about how you see walnuts fitting in the picture.

You need to get a hold of yourself. You have too much going on in your head. MEDITATION would be a good course for you to learn about and follow. Plenty of sources to learn about it on the Internet.

Good luck.

P.S. And get off of this thread. You nattering on about pretty much nothing is doing no one any good. previously posted link
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#73

Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 4:01 pm

I was just about to get off, also I'm 100% safe? Believable?
Richard u blew it long ago nothing u say can harm me it's y I don't mind u trying, there's not much on telly lol
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#74

Postby Icanbeatthis » Mon Nov 11, 2019 4:27 pm

I'm back I don't take orders from u, another failed attempt I'm defending myself from. Your not good at this. I'll give u a little power, it does have a mild effect wen you say the things you say about the nice lady I'm helping
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