Icanbeatthis wrote:Criticism and devaluing me are attempts to harm me that failed and no u can't do much with that
I did not criticize or devalue YOU. It might help if you work on separating out your ideas or opinions from who you are as a person. A critique of your opinion or a difference in opinion does not mean someone is trying to harm you.
I asked your opinion. Specifically I asked how do you reconcile calling this 20 year old smart and normal yet refer to them as a child. I asked if the person appeared to be a 4-year old. It was a discussion point.
Taking that as an attempt to criticize, devalue, or harm you is utter nonsense. It might be a reason you suffer such stress and anxiety in such a peaceful country. There is no one out to harm you, but even a conversation where you might be asked to justify a claim you consider somehow to be an attack.