My partner is about to get divorced from his japanese wife. Recently he told me about her odd and disturbing behavior. For example did she urinate on the bedroom floor of their 9 years old daughter cos she wouldn't clean up hear room properly (in her eyes). On another occasion, when he told her that he wanted a divorce she did it again in the living room. She also screamed and tore clothes apart before throwing him out (for the day, he wants to live with his children and it's his apartment). In general she has problems with social interaction and relationships. She hasn't got friends and also doesn't really have a real relationship with the kids, apart from wanting them to do chores and learn all the time. There is rarely an occasion that is loving or just for fun. She also doesn't play with them. She only cares about her singing and wants that everything in the house is done as she says or else. One can't really talk about problems with her. She doesn't say what she thinks or wants.
Is that a psychological problem? An underlying condition? I mean...he suspects a bit of autism, maybe? Or what else could it be? I couldn't find anything about grown adults intentionally urinating during arguments. This is so weird. And no, im not trolling. I'm as baffled about this as you.
Thanks in advance!
Emma