So I am lucky - my parents bought a small flat. I just repay them every month like a loan for this flat some amount of money.
But its kind of safer feeling than taking loan from bank, plus bank needs interest.
But really when girl asks how much you pay for rent, I have no prepared what to tell. I am lieing - that I pay same amount as I give a loan to my parents. And then she starts discussing - oh you pay so much, you could take a loan maybe and start having your really own flat.
If I will tell its secret, it will make her think there is something wrong and also she will try to find out still what the the hell is there happening.
If I lie - maybe if I ever get in serious relationship after some time - I could tell the truth. But then how the girl will think? She might understand my position that I wanted to find a girl who is with me even when I am not being rich.
But also she might think - he lied to me, so he next time he might **** another girl and lie again by finding some stupid reason like he does not want to break family so he lies. Or once the girl finds out that I am a liar, she herself might start lie same as me.
Trust in relationships is very important. And by lieing I am making my myself untrustworthy.
So what should I tell to a girls?