Good Morning GW,
Yeah, I did so well at the Math Table for my early morning session, that I thought I deserved a computer break. Yes, I think you got the point about women, that if you ever find a woman who makes you happy when she is with you, then you really don’t want to know what she does when she is not with you. The most you should ask a woman who is making you happy is “How was your day, Sweet Heart?” No prying into what they have been up to. If any of your terrible rotten friends come to you with rumors and gossip, just say “I’m sure it is all quite innocent, and I trust her implicitly”. Well, what you ‘trust’ is that when she is with you that she makes you happy. That is all you care about, isn’t it? Also, if you cut your Number One Woman a lot of slack, well, she might not look too closely at what you do when she is not around. You know, you won’t be inexperienced forever. Maybe you already know this, but the best part of being in love is falling in love, that is, the initial bonding stage. That is were all of the intensity is. It lasts about six months, if that long. After that, if you are lucky, you find that the person you bonded with is friendly, congenial and supportive, but very often the very person we were intensely in love with just months before becomes an irritant. But, in the wonderful cases where you still both like each other and get along well, there would still be the urge every few years to have some intense love affair. Now, often, idiots of both sexes will let a quick fling destroy their steady relationship, which might not be so bad if that relationship had gone sour, but if you like the person you are with, then you can never guarantee that the person you are having the steamy affair with will not actually be a nuisance after the Magic Six Months come to an end. Affairs don’t last. Love, that intense thing, does not last. That girl you are now pining over. That won’t last. So, anyway, since none of this stuff lasts anyway, if a woman is making you happy when she is with you, then you shouldn’t care about anything else.
But, there are dangerous women out there. You have to be careful in bars. There are some women who are waiting for their boyfriends to show up, who will start seriously flirting with guys because they enjoy seeing their boyfriends get jealous when they come in. And if it starts a fight, then these women enjoy watching their boyfriend kick the donkey of the guy they were just flirting with. The guys must somehow enjoy it too. Or probably it’s the fact that sometimes crazy chicks make guys act crazy. But if it ever happens to you, that is, you are the boyfriend, well, don’t let your girlfriend screw with your head. Just walk up and introduce yourself to the guy she was flirting with on the basis of ‘any friend of my girlfriend is a friend of mine’ (and he might actually be worth knowing if he is at all better than the rest of your loser friends). Girls can be fun, but not a one of them is worth fighting over… not when they are the ones who are trying to start the fights! But, yes, if you ever get caught in a situation with a jealous guy, where you are the poor guy the chick decided to sacrifice to her jealous boyfriend, well, the trick is to say something like “Oh, sorry, I didn’t realize” and split… don’t even take your drink with you, because it would take too long to reach for it (Rule One in bars, at the first sign of trouble, WALK AWAY FROM YOUR DRINK. Many guys died because they somehow thought it work their lives to finish their friggin beer). You want to head for the door. If there is ‘Bouncer’ then immediately make eye contact with a look in your eye that says “I don’t want trouble, but just want to get the heck out of here without this guy killing me”. You see, sometimes these Jealous guys need a minute to work themselves up into a frenzy, and you want to be a mile down road by the time that happens.
Oh, about Gypsies, yes, it was absurd of me to ask if you ‘knew’ any. Nobody but another gypsy ever really knows a gypsy, as they really are so insular. Though I have heard that every once in a while some new blood will marry into a gypsy family. But, yes, they tend to have predatory relationships to the greater society they are in at the time. They like living in trailers so that they can quickly relocate if the town they are in ‘gets too hot’ for them. I was just using them as an example of a people who really know how to make adaptive personas work for them.
So, anyway, have a nice day GW.