I would like some advice...
[sorry for the long initial post, I've never discussed this before and once I started it just kept on coming]
I think I had been suffering from depression to varying degrees since quite an early age, I remember what I would call my first real depressive episode at about 14 - I am now 29 - but it is only over the last 7 years or so that this has become gradually worse with darker and longer periods from which to recover. Over those years I have tried various self help methods: good eating, exercise, meditation, various books, internet sites etc. etc. but last year things seemed to go into a spiral and my gradual loss of confidence in myself, my opinions and thoughts, accelerated.
I'm actually quite comfortable and, from the outside at least, have nothing to be depressed about! But, after getting to the stage of quite serious suicidal thoughts this time last year I went to see my doctor who prescribed prozac which I took for about 4 months. In that time I changed jobs, which seemed to be a catalyst for my problems, and things began to look up, my confidence increased and I began to feel more positive.
Unfortunately this hasn't lasted and I can feel myself sliding again to how I was before. The loss of motivation, worthlessness and lack of personal value.
I don't know if the feeling of controlling depression is the same for others, but for me it is like a constant fight without a day's respite. Always feeling you are close to going down a pit and having to fight anything from a minor skirmish to a major battle to get away from it - sometimes succeeding, sometimes not. I once described how I felt to someone close to me who has what I would call a normal sunny disposition, I then asked them how often they felt this way; the answer was something like "once a month for an hour or so". When I realised my score was at least 4 days out of 5 overall I was shocked that someone could feel like I could on a GREAT day pretty much of all the time!
I have decided to go and see my doctor again tomorrow and ask for more treatment, I don't want to take any more drugs this time around - we are not there yet! But hope for something with a longer term outcome. I think this thing has to come from me in the end, with some help from others.
But...
Finally, I get around to my questions: Every day it seems I am engaged in this fight with my depression, constantly bringing myself back from that place, to a greater or lesser extent. Is this the best I can expect for the rest of my life or is there the possibilty of a long term solution to better my 4 out of 5 average? It seems a very tiring way to live.
And, what can I do to help myself - I seem to have tried a lot of stuff, but I've never asked advice about it before. Any suggestions from the veterans out there?