Public Speaking for the hearing impaired?

Postby dosstx » Sun Mar 18, 2012 1:44 pm

HI all,
First post here 8)

I hope someone can help me. I was born hard-of-hearing and it has been the bane of my existence so far (I'm 31). I talk with an "accent" due to the inability to hear the pronounciation of certain words. I have trouble with high frequencies and this makes up a large portion of human speech. Anyways, as you can imagine, this has affected my public speaking as well as my social life due to confidence issues. The absolute WORSE feeling in the world is a combination of public speaking to a large group + lack of confidence + knowing you have a handicap. Been there. College and high school was hell for me.

I've begun to take speech therapy classes but it's not helping much. On the other hand, I have started watching and emulating great public speakers like Brian Tracy, Jim Rohn, Carnegie, etc and I believe that is helping me. I've put more energy into my body language, facial expressions and the fact that I always know what I am talking about. I try to engage the audience as much as possible by questioning them and making them feel like part of the discussion. Furthemore, I try to make my presentations as visual as possible through powerpoint and other media with a mix of humor and drama. I think all of this helps me during presentations. I'm getting a bit more confident the more I do it.

I was wondering if anyone else has any advice for me or perhaps know of someone that has successfully dealt with the same issues I am going through?

Thanks!
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Postby simonr » Fri Mar 30, 2012 4:41 pm

Welcome :)

First things first, congratulations on doing public speaking despite what many people would think of as a disability that limits you too much to do that: stay with it!

It sounds to me like you're doing a lot of sensible things: stick with the speech therapy as in the long run it'll make things easier - I often work with clients to help them figure out what feels right, rather than what sounds right, if you see what I mean.

There are a number of techniques for dealing with nerves and it might be worthwhile talking to a coach near you (or taking an online course) to help you develop the tools for dealing with the adrenaline surge that comes with performance anxiety.

We've got one such technique on youtube which might help: I'd like to think so anyway... :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5_cf-9VYZU&feature=g-upl&context=G2b19dc4AUAAAAAAAKAA

Let me know how you get on.
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Postby 42itousNdeed » Sun Apr 01, 2012 3:07 am

Many years ago, I heard a man by the name of David Ring speak before a crowd of about 50,000 Baptist preachers (now there's a stressful crowd to approach!). David has cerebral palsy and therefore has some severe speech impediments (I'm not sure that's the right wording). Yet he became an outstanding evangelist who was unequal in his ability to motivate people to do great and wonderful things in their lives.

You can just put his name in You Tube's search engine and it'll bring up quite a few of his pieces. He also has a website called David Ring Organization (I cannot post URLs yet, sorry). It is well worth the time and effort.

By the way, he slayed that crowd of preachers! We laughed, cried, cheered, and left feeling empowered and renewed by his life's story.
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