How to get over needing a relation?

go for google

a cat doesn't mind to be alone
human is different from a cat ,if someone is teaching you to live like a cat most of that is BS because the instincts to want to be with others will sooner or later kick in

there can be no pills to make you CAT- LIKE independent
you will be depended because it is human nature
if someone say " I LIVE ALONE " well he may be alone but he is still using SOCIAL activities online or whatsoever so he is not exactly alone

but what I think is important to not depend TOO MUCH on one single person, or one group of people because if something go wrong you have no other place to go but you keep socializing with different groups of friends and so , you always have the confidence one moment you can be here, next moment you can be there you don't have too much of problem with that you are independent from an individual- or a group of people

I&I wrote:Hi everyone hope you're well,

I wanted to know some books or something to help me overcome the "need" of a relationship and be happy by myself. Im new here and id apreciate your collaboration.

Thank you.

There are books on these things and even articles about relationships and self worth. By the way, in my own perspective, I don't think, you will need a book. You just need to learn and value yourself even more. Do things that you are interested most and try to meet and hang out with friends and your immediate family more often. With those things, I believe that you will be able to do it by yourself and without having the need to engage in a relationship all the time.

Real life situation is the answer to your inquiry. Although books can help, I believe most of written texts are not applicable in our daily lives and can make your experience as dull as you think. Do you know the best way to get over? Is to deal with the people around you and try to enjoy every moment of your life.

Thanks for the advices.
Sometimes one makes dumb questions, cause its just as simple as not thinking in the lonelines.

I&I wrote:Thanks for the advices.
Sometimes one makes dumb questions, cause its just as simple as not thinking in the lonelines.

I don't think of that as dumb questions
because sometimes we get stuck into one negative state of the mind and we just don't know what to do to snap the brain out from that : confusion, fear, disappointment whatsoever that is