Ruth wrote:One of the things which has kept me going is a belief that this depression is another withdrawal effect, and that if I can be patient and not panic this depression will right itself over time.
Hi Ruth
Good on you for managing so far. It's not easy. (For my details, see post "coming off serzone".)
Re the above quote, I think you are absolutely right in your beliefs. My doctor isn't buying into any withdrawal effects either and mentions "the underlying condition" often. I have read much now about how many doctors mistakenly think withdrawal symptoms or effects are the so-called underlying condition or a relapse. Maybe they're conditioned to think that way and could do with some CBT to change the way they think and their subsequent instant-prescription-writing behaviour!
Seriously, after all I have read and learned from experience, I think the main point is the one you mention - that your belief that your recent depression is yet another withdrawal effect is what has kept you going. It seems to me with so much conflicting information (from doctors) and that stunning answer (from doctors) "no-one really knows" (when asked how ssri's work, how long withdrawal effects might last, what caused the depression, how long it will last etc etc etc) that we have to make up our own minds. You've made up your mind to believe that it's a withdrawal effect and who's to say it's not? I don't believe it is possible for any doctor to actually know that it is not.
So, all we can do is stick with what we believe. And funnily enough, I'm finding, that thought is uncomfortably in line with all that stuff we've read for years - create your own reality, what you believe in will be your reality, even as mundane as thinking positively. All the things which - even though I knew them - were seemingly not possible in the deepest, darkest depths of depression.
Coming off the medication, however, I think we are now so experienced in our own reality in all its guises, that I do believe that we literally know ourselves best. So it's not as "simple" as positive thinking - it's somehow deeper than that. Like our very beings know and trust that we are on the right track. And also very powerful, I think, is how much we WANT this to be the case - "it's a withdrawal effect, it's not really me".
From all the people I've been talking to and the reading I've done, no-one can really say (there we go again) how long it takes for the effects of the drugs to leave our systems - mind and body. I don't mean the half-life stuff, I mean the long-term effects. My chiropractor/acupuncturist (highly respected in his field, accompanied teams to the last three Olympics) told me last week that it could take up to 12 months (horrible, I know, but think only of the improvement ...).
He said that because these drugs effect every part of the body, not just the brain, but all our organs (read a comprehensive list of possible side-effects to see just how much of our bodies, truly terrifying reading ...) every cell in the body needs to re-learn "how to" without the effect of the drug - and that it takes time.
I'm choosing to believe that every single thing I am experiencing is due to the drug leaving my body. Every effect is the poison finding its way out. I'm only 7 weeks clear of the last dose (after eight weeks prior to that tapering off) and am still having "anxiety" attacks - except that the symptoms are all physical - chest tightness, difficulty breathing, neck pain, numb fingers etc - I do not FEEL anxious. I also have indigestion and bloating when I eat (never before) and major fluid retention.
I'm sure your recent episode is more poison just working its way out. I think it was Dr David Healy, the psychiatrist from North Wales who presented his findings to the British Safety Medicines board last October (after the controversial Panorama programme), and was interviewed on BBC Radio 4 this week, who said that any episode of depression inside the first 12 months of coming off the medication would be a withdrawal effect - that inside 12 months was too soon for a relapse.
Also, I think The Learning Path, on this site, will help to answer some of your questions and give you the encouragement to keep on your track. It helped me.
Good Luck
Juno
PS Apart from the muscle twinges, what other withdrawal effects did you experience?