Timetogetunstuck,
In the course of a few replies back to my inquiry you have managed to run me down and degrade me by telling me I value myself to little(which is far from the truth).Also you jumped to conclusions,you falsely accused,you were smart assy and condescending.If I were to run into problems I have enough smarts about myself to get out of such situation but you have underestimated me.Iam the type of person timetogetunstuck who refuses to allow anyone to intimidate me by fear or force.I would come up kicking.Iam not a victim nor will I let anyone make me feel Iam..I understand you have first hand experience at this sort of behavior but dont you feel at least a little teeny tiny bit that people can and do change or do you not put enough trust and faith in people?If you dont care enough then why do you bother to keep replying?Why do you even post to this message board?Are you upset that I wont agree with you?Really you arent high on my list either.There is a proper protocol at helping people,you didnt have to resort to such behavior at me.Thats just it everyone who has suffered at the hands of a man or anyone that knows someone who has will say nothing but negativity about the person OR ALL men who have hit before.They persecute said individuals by putting his balls on a stick on the spot.Relationships arent perfect there will be arguments that may end in hitting..does that automatically imply the person is an abuser?!I dont know all the answers..and this takes me back to the previous question I posed..you dont like it that I disagree with you..you've faced this situation so you think you know all the answers..and Im not doubting the validity of that but its made you not be able to trust(IMO)..why did I ask this question..gee why did you ask me why I asked?