QueenBeauty? wrote:... insinuating that I am some sort of slut just because I am a woman that hangs out with men.
Isn't that the same response you expect and believe you get from the majority of women? You repeatedly say most women don't like you because you're so beautiful. Please note,
I have never seen you. I don't know what you look like in leather pants and lace-up camisoles. I surmise, by your many references to Elizabeth Hurley, that you consider yourself the same 'type'... but I can only respond to what you tell me about yourself. I have not and never will insinuate that you or any other woman is "some sort of slut" for enjoying male attention.
You seem to think that it's ridiculous for my friend to dress sexy with leather clothes...
You misunderstand me. What's ridiculous is engaging in attention-seeking behaviours then complaining about the attention he gets.
It's sad that you think my friend should hide in the shadows...
I don't think that, nor do I see why it would sadden you (or your friend) if I did. Like everyone else, I'm attracted to beauty and confidence. I'll admit I'm somewhat disturbed at the thought of a young woman who's
so beautiful it's become some kind of a handicap.
You seem to think it is wrong to dress in revealing clothes...
Not at all, as long as you don't object to people looking at whatever it is you're displaying.
It would be beautiful to see everyone revealing their true self...
You mean our breasts and genitalia? Is your body your "true self", QB? Or is your true self the person who goes on presenting in a particular way even though she firmly believes it offends others?
I came to conclusion that women are all competitive toward each others and then spoke to other women and they told me the same.
Okay, this is the way you see women. (Do you include yourself? or are you an honorary man?) By your standards of beauty and sexiness, and assuming they're the most important aspects of womanhood,
YOU ARE WINNING. Congratulations!
So why all the posts saying this is a problem? Is it because all the 'losers' aren't equally delighted? Or could it be because most women you meet aren't even competing?
I am not alone, in my life , on internet, everywhere there are so much women complaining about how bitchy other women are toward each others. I am not a feminist...
No. You have a great contempt for women then you're offended because they don't want to be friends with you.
I think men are more interesting and fun than women in general in my life.
And so, by being beautiful and sexy, you attract pretty much every man with a pulse and most women stay away from you. This is what you want, this is what you say you have. Tell me again why you started this thread about your male friend being "bashed" for his sartorial splendour... because it looks to me as though you've both got it all together.
To sum up:
You are beautiful and dress to advantage
Men flock around
You believe most women are jealous bitches, and respond defensively (as you have responded to me -- and I am not jealous of you)
I would love to see every women confident and wearing proudly sexy revealing clothes
I believe women's lives are more about who we are and what we do than about being looked at and judged by.... you!