For a little context I'll introduce myself, I am an Obese, non-Agressive person who has always had trouble standing up for myself...
However, when it comes to altercations and Fights I have always been someone to run to an altercation/Fight, not away from it; in my own Mind, I seem to want to stop whatever is going on "Be the Hero" if you will...
The subject that I want to Discuss is people's Behaviour towards me before I get to the aforementioned altercations... More than once or twice in my life, when these situations have arisen and I start toward the centre of the event, someone, notably always Female, has always stood in my way (while letting others pass) telling me not to get involved...
My view on it is because I exude Weakness (or atleast I think I do because people have been verbal in the past about me being a "Pushover"), these particular people are seeing me as needing protecting???
Let's Discuss it, I wanna know what you Guys think about this.

