Sorry I haven't posted on this thread for a while, but I am going through a really rough time and I find some of the comparisons made on here quite upsetting and irrelevant.
Many people have told me in the past to 'think myself lucky' that I don't have a 'real' disabling illnesss, or that I don't have a terminal illness. Well all that does is create more feelings of guilt and beliefs that I am bad. Severe depresseion that causes suicidal thoughts and actions is as disabling as any physical disease, so is the tortuous nature of being trapped within an eating disorder.
I can't speak for others but I find I cope with physical pain and my physical disabilities reasonably well, but it is the emotional and mental health problems that cause me to feel my life is hopeless. Some people obviously do battle through terrible illnesses and disabilities and maybe they are stronger than me. I am and have been unable to do it all my life, and the older I get and the longer this goes on, the less strength or will I have to continue fighting. Anorexia is what I believe is the only thing that can save me or I have no life worth living.
angel_lotus wrote:However, with eating disorders, there is a distorted perception of self. No matter what the weight, the self sees itself as "fat." The person could be 60 lbs and still think they are overweight. I am not sure if anyone really knows why this happens. I just know it's not something that can be instantly cured with positive affirmations or therapy. A lot of times there is underlying trauma from childhood that created this misperception. It's a very complex condition.
I agree with this. I see myself as fat whatever my weight, BUT since I have gained weight I have gone from being just 'fat' to 'repulsively obese'. I don't need to look in a mirror to know of my fatness, I see it anyway and I
feel it constantly. I want to cut my body and get rid of the fat. It is with me no matter what I am doing or where I am. I am encased in this grossly, fat, repulsive body from which I cannot escape and which will be the cause of my doom.
Karen