masmas wrote:Yes I'm still around but cannot send you a pm just because I'm a new member. I'd want to have a chat with you tho as I'm struggling with similar things in my life time to time. What is the reason you're not quitting your job? Fear of not finding a new one? Fear of what people around you might think about you?
masmas, there are lots of people to chat with on this forum. desperate788 will only ever acknowledge any suggestion you make by telling you he "can't" do it.
The three questions you asked put you in a different league. You show an interest in others. You have a desire to be helpful. You're able to think outside your own troubles, whatever they may be.
As desperate788 repeatedly tells us, he has more and worse problems than anyone else on earth, therefore everyone should feel sorry for him. He is worse off than naked and starving children. Political prisoners being tortured right now should spare a thought for desperate788's mental anguish. He is worse off than people who are too old to get to the bathroom unaided, less lucky than people with innate or acquired disabilities. Whatever problem you may have, his problems are a million times worse.
Have at it if you want to. If you manage a breakthrough without burning yourself out, I'll buy you a shiny new car.