Hey tot, you've got more going on than I thought you had. Good! I'm glad you're planning to move to Chicago and I hope the shutdown won't affect your payments. Food, shelter and bus pass will be enough when the world's on your doorstep, right? You might want to investigate a basic cellphone deal, too.
I'm wondering whether son can be packed off to live with his father or another relative when you move to Chicago? I guess that will depend on how keen (or not) he is to strike out on his own after high school. It's a worry that he's starting behind the eight ball in the job-hunt stakes, as well as being in a small town and the world economy the way it is. Wouldn't he be better off moving to Chicago with you after high school?
BTW I'd be over to your place for pot luck and a game in a shot. I'd like to return the favour, but one or two of my friends are hesitant to accept so much as a glass of water here. Also need you to send me a coupla cans of your chili, as a matter of urgency. As a live-alone with an active social world, I still have times when no one wants to eat out and I'm confronted with myself in the kitchen, ready to eat
right now while staring helplessly at a bunch of wilting celery and two floppy carrots in the fridge.
Now you've had a glimpse of my domestic 'order', you won't be surprised when I say
hang the housework! You enjoy being out, but I get the impression you go to town, buy your groceries and come straight back again. If that's so, you might want to consider being on the first bus out and the last bus back, and figuring out some people contact before you shop. If you treated yourself to a good cup of coffee and made a point of talking to people sitting alone at other tables, for example, who knows what might happen?
You haven't said you'd like a partner and I wonder how you feel about that. I'm closer to 60 than 50 and I'm still open to ... possibilities.