I liked his music and enjoyed watching him, but I was born three years before he was so I have a different perspective. I had to google "celebrity who died on 25th June 2009" to find out Who you were being so coy about naming, so I doubt I qualify as a fan.
I gather from your reply to freddyharvey22 that you've concluded your obsession
is because you see yourself in He Who Must Not Be Named.
You are obsessed with her because you see yourself in her - you feel she is very similar to you. Here's my advice: do not TRY to get over her. Don't be like 'I'm going to stop liking her as much as I can' as this will make you like her even more. Lol it's reverse psychology. I say just let this run its course, allow yourself to obsess, because if you try to force yourself not to, she will be even more interesting as she becomes forbidden fruit.
I think you've got half the equation here. You are absolutely right that there's no point trying to stop the obsession, but while it's running its course it would be a good idea to go deeper into why you have it. Let's consider a couple of things.
1) Why you (and Freddy) are uncomfortable naming your chosen celebrities who were, after all, not shy about presenting their
false selves to the world
2) What it is about gifted people who wind up dead from drug overdoses that appeals to you (and Freddy)
The reluctance to speak or write The Name indicates this person is
sacred to you. Naming him would be like putting your soul out there to be looked at by a world that can't be trusted to understand. This strongly indicates that your own thoughts and feelings, your very self, have been ridiculed and cheapened by significant people around you.
I'm sure you have one or two biographies of He Who Must Not Be Named, or at least that you are very knowledgeable about his life. Seems likely you would also have a copy of his autobiography. It would be interesting to compare the two (his life story as he told it, and as told by someone else) because this was a man who lived and died in a state of unawareness. He didn't know Who He Was.
Rather than "just let this run its course", I suggest you consider his life and maybe get a dedicated notebook to jot down the similarities between you and him, ie. where you think you knew exactly how he felt, and what motivated him. In other words, use your obsession as a mirror that reveals you more clearly to yourself.
I don't think either you or Freddy really want to follow your celebrities down the path of doom. The universe is geared up to reveal us to ourselves, so we can shine our talents into the world
without feeling fear, shame and a sense of being inauthentic. You can be unconscious of Who You Are your whole life, which means when this obsession passes you will continue to see and admire only reflections of yourself. You can spend your life that way -- millions do -- or you can become conscious and maybe become a celebrity yourself. Even if you don't, truly knowing Who You Are will mean an increase in life satisfaction on a scale you can't imagine right now... to the point where the idea of messing with drugs seems absurd.
allow yourself to obsess, because if you try to force yourself not to, she will be even more interesting as she becomes forbidden fruit
There's great wisdom and great hope in this.
You will be even more interesting when you find and taste what you now consider forbidden fruit -- something shameful -- inside yourself. This is something no one else can do for you. There's no shame in becoming obsessed with finding out Who You Are and what you have to offer to the world. And, incidentally, it helps to notice what you're saying when you're not even
trying to explain deep feelings.
Our own words, obsessions, dreams and day-by-day experiences of life are practically screaming at us:
This is who you are! If you believe it's all Out There and random, that's how you'll live your life. When you realise it's all In Here, and the outer world merely reflects it back to you, you'll be embarking on the greatest adventure anyone can have.