by CandyApples » Sun Feb 23, 2020 1:48 am
takes deep breath-- I would love for my sis in law to live her life very much...just dont be in mine as much. If I came to your house, you just met me and started telling you I think you should do xyz, and then literally tell you your stupid, then tell you to not talk to your husband bc hes busy with whatever...wouldnt you kinda step back and be llike hmmm..you just met me?? Then, when you open your house to me -- I get mad at you for not letting me invite my friends, and stand you up after you bought dinner for me, etc....bc I didnt understand why you were feeling tired that day and not giving me attention, even though you told me multiple times it was the anniversary of your dads death and you just wanted some space. Im curious how you would feel in those situations bc times that by 50, and thats my dynamic with my sister in law. I keep getting the vibe you really think I have some form of better than thou attitude, and I honestly dont. As for the caps, I was just being funny, didnt know about the rules but now I know. I do think me trying to control my husband is very funny but people read things differently. I dont control him at all, Im trying to find a voice for myself and a path to my happiness after years of being controlled..good or bad. I also think ppl have a right to say they do not like a group of people and be annoyed with it, I dont see why the world forces everyone to hold hands and sing songs when---some ppl just dont jive, its ok..