Hi,
Bit new to this sort of thing so please bare with. I'm pretty sure that after reading through the depression learning path and reading some of the threads on this site that im going through some sort of depression (if thats the right term to use ). I dont want to offend anyone here(apologies if i do) but I feel ashamed to be going through this, or that it makes me abnormal in some way. For some reason I seem to have lost my sence of self..I feel totally lost and unable to understand why I feel so depressed or why this has happened to me. I dont feel like that i've had a hard life...or have gone through anything that should be so life changing in the way I feel. I've had rough times in my life...but hey..who has'nt??. I noticed a few years back that I started to have days that would feel really low...usually to do with thinking that others thought bad of me or disliked me...this may..or may not have been the case. I dont want to prattle on here...But the only way I can describe the way i feel is empty..I seem to have totally lost my personality,sence of humour,sence of self,self confidence..It scares me to death to think im going to be like this for the rest of my life. I seem to have lost the ability to comunicate with people..including my close friends and familiy. I have developed some wierd reaction to meeting new peolpe..I just get this overwhelming feeling of not being worthy!!..and this usually results in long periods of that uncomfortable silence..if u know what I mean. I constantly chastize myself for feeling this way..but cant seem to break out of this. I hav'nt allways been this way so why now?? I spent 12 years in the Forces so self confidence was'nt really a problem..so why now..i honestly feel like a frightened school boy..and im beginning to hate myself for being so soft. I've become very withdrawn and irritable...just wanted to know if anyone has had a similar experience?...I also realise I need a bit of help to get through this and was wondering if anyone new a good councelor in the North East (Newcastle) area.
Thanks for your Time
R