Helen Joy wrote:Thank you so much for your responses both of you. I am very inspired by milton Ericsson and read as much about his work as possible though so far it's not given me much practical help with seeing clients as a wheelchair user.
We are clearing out a room at home, currently a downstairs dumping ground for books, shoes,coats, you name it! I think I will buy one really comfy chair for the client and stay in my chair. That way I'm making the best use of my space and making myself and my client as comfy as possible.
I'd love to see other peoples hypnotherapy rooms!
One of the nice things about hypnosis is that it's free-form. While using a little bit of physical contact in the induction, such as the arm drop or tapping the forehead, speeds things along, I doubt most hypnotists ever use either one.
The traditional hypno-office these days features a recliner for the client, though any high-backed armchair works okay. Having a couch is useful when you're seeing more than one person or the client prefers to lie down. Positioning your own chair close to the client, at right angles to them, is conversationally intimate without being as threatening as being directly face-to-face. You want to be able to get close because some clients are hard of hearing.
Obviously, expectation plays a large role in hypnosis. Think of it as theater. Clients can enjoy a show featuring different scripts, sets, costumes, and actors, but it helps if the elements are too dissonant. So if you had an office with tropical decor and showed up in a Hawaiian shirt, no prob, but if you kept the room cold and showed up in a parka, not so much.
My own office (you can see photos and videos in the link in my signature) is a powerful space, reinforced with some antique furniture I inherited, but softened with some child-friendly touches. Similarly, for costume I do "business casual" -- dress shirt but no tie. If I were working out of my home, instead of a downtown office, I'd make things less formal and more homey.
Whether your look is formal or informal, your clients will be reassured if there are indicators of competence: certificates on the wall, books on the shelves, costuming and grooming that, regardless of its style, looks like you did it on purpose!
Extraneous elements should be kept to a minimum. A couple of toys scattered around would be okay, but other random intrusions should be eliminated or at least partially concealed. I find subdued lighting and a can of Febreze to be essential!
Robert