Richards comment about school is spot on this time around. I should have been recognised from an early age and treated with some sort of understanding. Instead I was left to struggle and sometimes taunted. As much by teachers. I often wonder why hardly any teacher couldn't see there was an issue that needed to be looked at. My only saving grace at school was my reading. Lots of Asperger kids seem to learn to read quite well. So, I often read those old Famous Five books. After that came Marvel comics - Spiderman and so forth.
One thing I can state for sure is that undoing all that damage requires a higher level of understanding. You have to undo years of negative programming. When you were, for example, seen as "stupid", you start off believing it is true. So, you have very low confidence. To counter that you may go in the opposite direction and become very self-reliant. Some people with autism can become narcissistic. There's likewise a very real danger of developing anti social tendencies. Fortunately, over time, I learned to view the whole experience in overall context. I met various people who were supportive and can see part of my school experience was bad luck. There was little awareness at the time. Mine was a working class area - a pretty rough school, I suppose. Maybe too the experience of struggle gave me something in return. I take a certain pride in how far my research has come and how easier it is now to face up to life with knowledge to draw from. It was a big turning point. In the past I used to blame myself for being a failure but now I know it really is a medical condition. Not as severe as the more handicapped sphere of autism, of course, but definitely a disadvantage in the real world. To deal with it you need to be able to admit to your own shortcomings and be honest but also exploit any advantages. Even Forest Gump played great ping pong.