what am I doing wrong?

**Posts:** 2 · by **sarahcait** » Sat Jun 07, 2014 6:57 pm

I live with my ex for 2 1/2 more months. He says were friends now and he still wants to hang out with me. So I asked him today if he wanted to have breakfast with me in the morning. He said potentially. I said what do you mean? He said he might see if his friend wants to hang out. I said but I just asked u to do something first. U always look for something better to do then hang out with me. He said hes not doing that but I tried to explain how it seemed like he was. Then he started to say why does everything have to be a fight with you and your so ******* annoying, do ypu hear how you sound your just so ******* annoying. U come in here and say the stupidest thing to me. I said im not doing anything wrong, no one else says im annoying. He said well I guess ur not acting that way with them. Then I said I didn't say anything stupid and he ignored me so I got up to leave then he said bye like I was being rude to just get up and leave. Then after he acted like none of it happened and now wants to have breakfast. I feel really upset about this I just wanted to have breakfast with him and I made him mad but I didn't mean to I don't understand.

**Posts:** 2008 · by **WonderGurl** » Sat Jun 07, 2014 7:09 pm

Ditch it. You're too nice. He's still controlling you and you're dancing to his tune.

**Posts:** 1158 · by **TheCloud** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 1:34 am

WonderGurl wrote:Ditch it. You're too nice. He's still controlling you and you're dancing to his tune.

Ditto.

**Posts:** 8 · by **gr8fulwoman** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 3:49 pm

You've done nothing wrong.

**Posts:** 20 · by **eblake** » Tue Jan 27, 2015 3:09 am

who is he? the reason I ask is because he must be a God of some sort. who else would he be to think he has the right to speak to you as if you don't matter or in such an insignificant way. it sounds like you know what you need to do but I will agree and give confirmation that it's the right thing and you will be okay.

eblake

**Posts:** 29 · by **Lance06** » Tue Feb 03, 2015 9:22 am

Yeah you've done nothing wrong.

**Posts:** 3 · by **maryapple** » Mon Feb 16, 2015 8:45 am

Oh, gosh! There're SO many guys in the world, that are handsome, smart, caring. There's no poing in mourning. I know it from myself: when I start thinking of the whole situation with my BF I understand, he's jerk. But then my friends invite me to a party, guys send me messages - life's great! Much more interesting, than the ex.

**Posts:** 8 · by **HelpMeToHelpYou** » Wed Mar 25, 2015 10:32 pm

I think you need to spend some time with yourself and get to know yourself better. No matter what this guy will always have the same attitude.
Write a list one side being good things about him and other side being bad things about him. And I guarantee you that the bad things will be so much longer. Always keep this near by and I you will realise that it is not you who is wrong it is him. You should get to know yourself and get to love yourself. This is what you need please believe me. I hope you feel better soon. People like that in your life will always bring you down

**Posts:** 39 · by **soli_ana** » Thu Mar 26, 2015 1:58 am

You did nothing wrong. I say dont waste anymore of your time

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