I only get angry with one person in the entire world - help!

**Posts:** 9886 · by **Candid** » Thu Mar 26, 2015 4:10 pm

DrowningAlone, I've alerted the mods. I hope they'll get back to you soon.

desperate788, good to see you here! In answer to your question: not much. We had a one-time poster who got chased off. The rest of us have sat around amiably chatting.

Leo: No. I am a-political.

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Thu Mar 26, 2015 4:18 pm

Good to see you candid too i have some problems mental confusion keeping touch with reality thats why i cant post frequently

**Posts:** 9886 · by **Candid** » Thu Mar 26, 2015 4:25 pm

Hey desperate, you've got more posts on this forum than all the rest of us put together! I'm glad to see (elsewhere) that you have a good girlfriend. xxx

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Thu Mar 26, 2015 4:38 pm

I cant understand what you mean was posting at diaries thread is it so much

**Posts:** 9886 · by **Candid** » Thu Mar 26, 2015 4:50 pm

I just posted on your diaries thread. You're fine to go on doing what you're doing ... but it's nice to see you on other threads, too.

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Thu Mar 26, 2015 5:06 pm

I liked to post on other threads too

**Posts:** 559 · by **Jim1** » Thu Mar 26, 2015 8:53 pm

DrowningAlone wrote:Jim1 -- any ideas why I can't PM anyone yet?

Hi,

Try to send me one and then, if it won't let you, paste on here the exact message that you get and I'll look into it.

Thanks Candid for bringing this to my attention.

**Posts:** 400 · by **Cpt Yossarian** » Fri Mar 27, 2015 11:52 am

Joudan wrote:Okay, I have this problem where I get unimaginably angry when my mum interrupts me while I'm doing something, whether it be working, watching Youtube, or playing games. It's also linked to the fact that she keeps telling me not to waste time talking to my girlfriend, who lives on the other side of the world but is coming to visit in July. She doesn't believe me that I can still do work in my free study periods at school while I talk to her at the same time. I showed her proof, and even told her about how I was helping other people with their work at the same time (I'm top of my commerce class, people ask me).

How do I solve this? It hurts me an incredible amount because I love her so much, the pain is on par with thinking about losing a dearly loved one. I asked her to please change herself just a little bit, because then we would be able to avoid this kind of thing altogether so easily. She seriously has to stop being in my face so much but she doesn't think that it's her fault, and she doesn't believe that she is the only person in the world who makes me legitimately angry. I'm an extremely chill guy, people at school literally cuddle me to use me for warmth in the Winter because I'm "just like a big cuddly teddy bear".

I decided to try to find some kind of forum after an incident that happened about 10 minutes ago with the whole talking-to-girlfriend-during-study-periods thing. She made me so angry that I just slammed my fist down on the table, and very nearly crumpled my homework into a ball and ripped it up. I somehow managed to avoid it by making myself fumble it, then I became slightly calmer. But then she said something else that just sent me right off, and I snapped a pen clean in half and threw it across the room. As I was typing this, I noticed that I have cuts on my knuckles from doing just that, and I got blood on my homework.

I'm 16 years old by the way, but somewhat mature for my age according to my teachers and peers. I'd really like to fix myself before this problem escalates into something worse.

Please help me.

All temporary things and mental, emotions and physical states are unsatisfying. They are always something we chase after but can never get hold off.

Yet we crave and cling to these things and states; thereby, we're continuously frustrated and suffering.

If we stop craving and clinging and desires we stop his suffering.

How to end suffering is by following the Noble Eightfold Path, namely behaving decently, not acting on impulses, and practicing mindfulness and meditation.

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