doesn't emotional intelligence mean...

missdel wrote:asking the right questions? which you can only do with the right wisdom. i find CBT has helped me do this. otherwise, you spend forever trying to find answers to the wrong questions

yea I think emotional intelligence has alot to do with maturiety. Also some people are more perceptive than others, some may be quicker at leaning, and some people never learn through life and these are probably people who wont have developed a good level of emotional intelligence because there focus has always been somewhere else.

Emotional intelligence to me is be able to answer someone with words that unlocks the words he's trying to say. No matter if your answer seems completely out of the mark, it's just the emotion created by the word you use or the tone of your voice that ease up the person you're talking to. Emotional intelligence to me is about be able to talk free from the language barreers. (words frozen concepts)