Getting upset on why people don't respond to my statements.

Postby killshift » Sat Jan 18, 2014 9:49 am

Greetings and good day to you, guys!

I've been concerned of worrying myself towards the loss of respect/admiration between me and my friends in school. Why did i think it so?

Here's my experience:

On one day when i was at Facebook, i sent a message to my (likely) close friends. Though the statements (mostly questions) i forwarded were sensible and not weird, they did not reply (a simple task, isn't it?). I never understood why they are hard-headed and because of that, i sensed that they have hatred over me, even though those acts were done with servility.

For example:

-I asked them to like my profile picture but they didn't reply albeit they knew i treated them with esteem.
-Among all unlike most of my classmates whom i frequently observed conversations strangely, i always try to take it in a good way.

But know this before anyone replies: I did not force them to reply, but i couldn't clearly realize why they didn't want me to respect them.

I'm open to suggestions regarding about this. Please feel free! :)

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Postby JuliusFawcett » Sat Jan 18, 2014 10:16 am

Worry can never bring happiness, to bring more happiness into our lives we can help people to find more happiness in theirs.

A smile, a hug, a gift, a helping hand, a word of encouragement, a silent blessing, support, a compliment, some praise, heartfelt thanks. When we actively engage in these small gestures of human kindness, they come back to us.

Letting go of thought patterns to do with fear, anger, jealousy, blame, guilt, sorrow, irritation, criticism, frustration, resentment, bitterness allows happiness to flow more easily.

What other people say and do to you is not personal, it is their business, their karma, how you react is your business, your karma. Love is the healing force. Choose to surround yourself with positive people.
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Postby mindatwork » Sat Feb 01, 2014 4:52 am

To my mind, you are allowing your self-image, and by inference, your happiness, be dependent on the moods, whims and fancies of your friends.

If you learn to love and respect yourself more than you do now, you will over time come to disregard what others say or do. You are worth much more than you realize! Recognize it.
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