So;
let it be bullies; yeah, I was bullied when i was 14 until 17 I guess, but I was a bully as well before, even know I was 13 or less, so the kind of "guy that was joking" you mentioned.
Who bullied me really beated up people, stole money, breaks door with punch, etc. But I don't want talk about this now.
What i meant is there are people that will want to take too many advantages from my being gentle. This is sure. So i have to watch out and stop myself from being too much easy going with these people.
I don't agree with you in this, I have to try, if then I will do wrong then I will change as you said.
Talking about women, well, I'm too young but women don't say ever the truth. They want the gentle one and then running behind the jerk guy, they want the mature one and then running behind the idiot dude.
Nowadays they are admiting, step by step, that we -men- are at their mercy:
https://i.redditmedia.com/EK56yMeh38kwZ ... ba60f99d56What is scaring me is that the world, slowly, starts to understand this, but the 70% seems is liking the situation.
I don't want a revolt, but equality.
Well, I want just to touch another point: I think -i'm sure- that I'm misoginist. I mean, I don't choose it but people are noticing this in me.
But I think it's a form of frustration, I like girls, but all these refuses in years made me so angry. As I said, I don't even talk with her anymore if they dump me up.
Did I mentioned that 90% of my friends is gay?
I don't look at this thing, but I would not want that they can have a bad influence on me. This is an ugly thing to say, but, hey, just saying; i don't think they influence me anyway.
And I'm talking about the behaviour, not other things xD, 'cause yes, many of gay people (not every single gay, but many) are narcisistic, salty, false friend, etc.
They think that I'm infant, but sweet and kinda of serious in relationships (except for the best friend of the girl
); i think I'm kinda evil sometimes, even when I said to the girl that she stinks, and the next day she attacks me; i replied with "I'm and idiot, but i'm not evil"; what a kind of witheknight doggy, but I think is it ok with the "being gentle" cult, isn'it? Even if i feel so humiliated from her. Do not make me touch this button again, but you know? I think at her sometimes, I think that I did mistakes, I think that maybe she didn't care much. Sometimes i miss her, sometimes i'm angry with her and I imagine that maybe one day we can come back together like in stupid love films. I said this to ask "what is my brain doing?". I take walks everyday kinda, and 5/6 days I think at this situation. Uff, why sometimes i go back wit that damned page that I swear to turn everytime?
But Ok, be gentle and easy going, people never understand this my state, but nevermind. Just hoping that they don't think I do the turncoat; 'cause maybe any sort of my action can betray me.
Is it really in my nature acting like being gentle?
Usually I'm in first times, when i have not confidence and i'm timid with new people, I act like that; but then I reveal the "animal" that I am.
In the end, yeah, it is not cool to interrupt people to make sneering comments, but still, I don't they hate me now or judge me as bad. I don't do it anytime. But I will work on it.
Just hoping that all this "keeping inside" won't feed much stress and anger; we was talking in the first page about the jaw thing, but I didn't catch it well. I mean, anger is mostly a mental thing. Isn't it?