So yesterday was my last day smoking.
A little about myself. I am a 35 year old female. I’ve been smoking for almost 20 years now which is crazy to me! I only stopped when I was pregnant 2 years ago and then 5 years ago I stopped for a few months for a job. I was either 15 or 16 the first time I smoked. It was fun and different. One of the guys I was with the first time ended up becoming my boyfriend, so I kept smoking all through high school. It never seemed like a big deal back then. I always got good grades and never got in trouble. I didn’t smoke cigarettes which a lot of my friends did, so I figured a little weed was okay.
My frequency of smoking went up a lot when I went away to college (new friends and bf), but I still did really well in all my classes and stayed out of trouble. Ended up going to grad school, and now I have a pretty good job in the healthcare industry. I’ve been a homeowner for the last 4 years. My husband and I got married last year and we have a 1 year old daughter.
Despite accomplishing all of this, I’ve come to realize weed is holding me back in every aspect of my life. I have a lot of stressful things going on, and I definitely use weed as a coping mechanism. It’s been really bad this past year, and I’ve been smoking more than ever. I’m at a point where I’m just ready to stop. I’ve wasted so much time and money. Ugh I hate even thinking about it, but I do feel hopeful.
I found this board months ago and had been slowly reading through a super long thread about the benefits of quitting weed. It has inspired me a lot. I know I will experience many of those benefits too, and even though I know it’s going to be hard, I cannot wait! I want to keep track of the process, the struggles, and all the improvements in my life on here. I think it will really help me stay focused and remind me of how much better my life is now. Also maybe it will help someone else (I know hearing other people’s stories really helped me).
So as a reminder to myself for why I’m quitting, I am going to list all the negative things for me I can think of about smoking weed.
1. My health. Smoking anything cannot be good for you. I want to be around for as long as possible. Time just went so fast, and I can’t believe I’ve been doing this for so long. I’m terrified to get cancer so I can’t even believe I’m inhaling smoke every single day. I need to be around for my daughter.
2. Money. I hate thinking about all the money I’ve spent over the years on weed.
3. Time consuming. Takes away from time I could be sleeping, cleaning, reading, playing with my daughter, working out, etc). Plus I just sit there a lot bc I usually just smoke by myself. I swear it feels like I get glued to the chair almost. So much wasted time.
4. Memory not as good. I don’t want to forget life. I’ve already forgotten so much.
5. Definitely not as good as I could be at work. My work ability is affected by my shitty memory, but I think smoking also affects my ability to speak to people well with confidence. Something I really need to work on. Also I HATE getting up in the morning for work and weed prob makes that worse.
6. Makes me feel tired all the time. Not only does the weed make me tired that day, but the next morning also
7. Hungry all the time. Bottomless pit. Used to think it made food better. I don’t think so anymore. Things taste amazing, but I never feel satisfied. Definitely makes it harder to eat healthy.
8. More antisocial. It used to be that smoking was a social thing I would do while hanging out with friends. Now that I’m older I really don’t see my friends all that often, so I’m usually smoking by myself at home. I don’t even really smoke with my husband much anymore. Be
9. I hate the way I look when I’m high. Also I always look super tired for the first few hours after I wake up, prob bc I like to smoke right before bed.
10. Makes the house smell and have to worry about people coming over. Also as my daughter gets older, I don’t want her to smell it.
11. Less productive. Even though I always tell myself it’s going to make me more productive, I really don’t think that’s true anymore.
12. Ashes get all over and it’s just another thing I have to worry about cleaning.
13. Have to worry about drug tests (always makes me nervous using something like Quick Fix
14. Have to keep it a secret from people at work.
15. When I drink, weed always pushes me over the edge. The combination kills me, and I’ve gotten sick countless times.
I’m sure there are a ton of other things I’m just not thinking about right now. I definitely plan to update this on my progress and all the benefits I will hopefully experience. It will help me stay motivated and on track. I’m feeling pretty optimistic, but I’m also realistic and know this is probably will suck for a little while, at least in the beginning! My daughter is my main motivator though and this is the first time I’ve ever “willingly” quit. I’m confident and know I can do it for her.