Possible to pull 6 girls a night?

**Posts:** 662 · by **error265** » Fri Oct 22, 2010 8:34 pm

How to pull 6 girls a night!

Last night a new friend of mine says he's been reading the blog about getting girls and wants to show me his skills, straight away he goes up to 2 girls who gave him IOIs below his standard and pulls within 40 seconds both... He brushes past another set of girls, this time its two hotties while gaining kino while giving a brief "how's it going? Tonight is amazing isn't it" but is primarily blown out by both, Then he carries on to kiss close some more girls below his standard and a complete hottie...., what's my point? He did this in the space of 15minutes as like a promised performance... He guaranteed me he could do it, and did it immediately after!

Recently my results haven't been that they were as a teenager, which is quite embarrassing when I go out with guys (typically hypnotists + magicians) and they want me to demonstrate PUA techniques, often I find myself opening the entire room, and can sometimes find myself girl-less and have whatever magician/hypnotist I'm with somewhat closing instead of me.

During the years 14-19years old I remember being completely shocked if I didn't kiss close at least six a night several days a week.

Recently I looked in the mirror at my 24yr old face, and wondered: what's different? My standards have got alot higher and that's all well and good, I mean it's great to have ambition... But it can't be denied that many a player are turning over20 full closes a month. Even if it could be argue some of those girls aren't their type.. It can't be denied that many are spot on their type.

Back in the day it was common practice, to pull a few kiss closes with number out just to get yourself going on the evening. Obviously these wouldn't be with the girl who is your ideal, they were performed with aim of working the venue and working towards getting the girl you want, so your ready to close her when you need to.
About a year or two ago, I was watching a Mystery Method video clip where Mystery was demonstrating some infield game, I said to my friend 'Anthony Jacquin' that if I went for girls as below my standard as the ones mystery was demonstrating on then I would full close hundreds of girls too.

After spending time with many a group of player, across the cities I've lived, I kinda think I need to re-evaluate what I've learnt, and what I really think? My results aren't as strong as they were as a kid, yet the clubs I visit on the regular are identical to the clubs I visited in my teens, the demographic/psycho graphic I approach is identical, yet I'm not on 6 girls a night.

Recently I've realised the error of my ways, and I apologise for criticizing mystery. Many PUA companies including my own words teach to 'Make the biggest social impact you can possibly make'.

Your aim should be to pull as many people as you can, regardless of your beliefs about what's possible and what's not, what's attractive and what's not. The hotties your trying to impress don't know if other girls are attractive or not (she's not a lesbian), aim to be the guy who closes a lot of girls, not quality girls and you'll get the quality. Limit your beliefs about how the world 'should be' and you'll find yourself living in a tiny box and find it difficult to move, open your mind and make intention to speak to everyone and not only speak but engage emotionally, sexually, and you'll find that you create an image to the club/world that you are in demand from all the girls, that you are a bad boy player.

Make the hotties jealous, let them think that your more popular than her, and that you full close far more 'pretty' people (they aren't necessarily hot to you, but to her) than she does, and she'll be so jealous of you that she'll want to be with you. Aim to be the guy that all the guys want to be and all the girls want to be with.

End of the day, its just a game, work the venue, play the world, you only live once. If people think you are famous, you are famous, if hot girls think you land loads of pretty girls... you'll land her. (girls think their friends are pretty, just like you think your mates are hotter than you)

I always tell PUA clients that 'to be really good at this game, you truly have to find your love for the person your speaking to' maybe I didn't understand the weight of that statement,

If you love someone, you kinda have to kiss them......

Love ya,

Vince Lynch

http://GetmetheGirl.co.uk
For advice, coaching etc. For vincelynch thoughts read http://www.sicksocialscience.com

**Posts:** 9885 · by **Candid** » Tue Oct 26, 2010 6:55 am

Is this a recognised sport?

**Posts:** 286 · by **Sparrowhawk1161** » Sun Nov 14, 2010 6:30 am

Listen. You have grown in enotional areas.

Could you pull all those girls in... propably yes?

But, do you really want to do that. What's the advantage? Everytime you find someone... you move one... and move on... and move on...

Unless you find out... something is happening to me. Going back and seeing all this is fine and dandy... until you look at yourself.

Now, that your in your 20's... take a look forward and back at the same time...

You are now in checkout counter for groceries... and by yourself. A little girl about 4 or 5 years old looks at you. Btu, she smile at you! What do you do? Do you ignore her? Or, are you looking at her?

Things go through your mind when you see such a little girl! This girl be a diva... one day! And, she is looking at you. Why does she smile at you?

It's the expression on your face. You know that she shouldn't be looking at strange... men like you! Your instincts says... don't look at strangers!

But, she smiles at you!

So, what do you do... you smile back... and, freeze right where you are. No wrong ideas... cause she will trust anyone...yet, you smile... because she smiled... and you don't want to give her the wrong idea about you... You are stranger... two conficting ideas in your head. That's fatherly instincts.

If this happened to you... you are in your twenties... and, if happens all the time... you're boyfriend material.

Why are you boyfriend material? Because a small part of you see's fatherhood. A little girl...lost... and, is scared... wants to know how to make things right. You are ready for Fatherhood! So, you freeze... makiing sure has the idea that you are stranger... but, smile because you have those fatherly instincts...

You have twenties with a vengence! You have entered boyfriend material. That girl is no longer just a little girl... Protective instincts come in and all you want to do is make her safe... you don't want her to get the wrong idea of strangers...they can be bad... so you stand your ground and tell the girl what she needs to know... where to go... where to find... help... and when you do that... you feel good! A little girl is finding help!

When a little girl makes your heart melt... you are ready for another area! It's not only fatherhood.. but something even more... you are gaining boyfriend material.

Boyfriend material... when you start wondering about a girl beyond what they can give you... your on the right track. If you find yourself staying put... to learn all you can and never stop... your locked into boyfriend material

Girls... Boyfriend material who stays put... looks at you... wants to know you and will take no for an answer and takes all good and bad... and still wants to know more... boyfriend material...very scary.

Yet, guys...their are girls out their that want this... and they will take it... and grow on you and you will grow on hem and in wilol be like a two-way street traffic flows in each direction. Each time she shy's away... you let it happen until it copmes back. The foundation of friendship is just made and sexzy stuff is just a cap on the pyramid. But, the foundation is set!

If you feel that girls are sex... that what you will find and... and that's all your going to find... sex...sex...sex...

Until, suddenly something happens, and the girl's life is important... like the first Barbie doll... or that beautiful horse she used to comb the main of... now your talking, guy, and when you find those things out... the young lady is giving just as much as you're giving... like two-way street.

Now someting is happening... and everything you get is like a treasure. You keep it... but, you protect it... you don't use it... you find it valauble and you keep it... as something beautitiful... and, nothing gets in its way... it stays their growing all the time.

Your twenties... you should be looking at girls as something to add to your life... not just use! It won't work... you a re getting to point were women..

That's the point you need to look at? Where are they?

You might be surprised

**Posts:** 11 · by **alter_nate** » Wed Dec 08, 2010 10:23 pm

Ok. Forgive me if I come across as harsh but for other board members I would like to point out a few things on this subject.

Ever since the advent of the Internet men have been documenting their journeys with relating to women. Over time many like minded men were able to find each other online and share their thoughts, experiences, and their theories with regards to approaching, attracting and seducing women.

Then came the internet marketers and so called PUA's (short for pick up artists) and seduction gurus. In reality many of these people had little to no real world experience. And in some cases probably virgins. :lol:

With slick marketing techniques and false promises many of these marketers were able to sell e-books, sell weekend seminars, and even life time coaching. Many of these services costing in thousands of dollars. Think of Will Smith in the movie Hitch. The only difference was that none of these gurus could teach or even accomplish anything close to their fake claims. Some would call that a scam.

To point out a good example of how these marketers got men to part with thousands of dollars of their hard earned money I would turn you to the first post in this thread. The fake made up story of our little thread starter here would surely be enough to at least peak the interest of any heterosexual man. I mean who wouldn't want to 'kiss close' at least 20 different women'? In reality his little fake story is nothing more than an attempt to capitalize and victimize men of this board out of their money. I am sure he ran across this website and looking at some of the psychological and emotional problems that some of the people on this board are facing he thought they would be easy prey to his BS PUA theories.

Sorry to inform you sir but this is a board for people with real issues not your fairytale made up world of pick up artistry. And the problems are real world problems, it is beyond the scope of your simpleton view of relationships and the world.

Have a good day. :lol:

**Posts:** 9885 · by **Candid** » Sat Dec 11, 2010 8:57 pm

alter_nate wrote:The fake made up story of our little thread starter ... I am sure he ran across this website

He has 644 posts here. As a woman, I object to seeing women spoken of with such utter disrespect and as 'something to score'.

**Posts:** 7 · by **voidwalker** » Sun Dec 12, 2010 3:21 pm

Candid wrote:
alter_nate wrote:The fake made up story of our little thread starter ... I am sure he ran across this website
He has 644 posts here. As a woman, I object to seeing women spoken of with such utter disrespect and as 'something to score'.

PUA type things are disagreeable because they do objectify human beings, but it is a viable alternative for those who are too weak willed to join the marriage/dating strike.

As per women being on a pedestal, keep dreaming. Those days are pretty much over. Women as a class deserve no respect at all; women as individual human beings though deserve basic consideration, but respect is something that is earned from one individual person to another.

It is a shame for all the egalitarian notions spouted since the 70's turn out to be nothing more than gender supremacy in a push up bra. Attitudes like yours that "Women are Royalty" while "Men are disposable" is the very reason why sick PUA type dogma exists in the first place.

In the 20th century the Radical notion was "women are human beings too", now it seems in the 21st century the truly radical notion is "So are men".

**Posts:** 9885 · by **Candid** » Sun Dec 12, 2010 5:52 pm

There was nothing in my post that could possibly be misconstrued as disrespectful of men, and I have no idea where you got the pedestal thing from. To clarify: I object to any human being classed as a 'thing' to be scored. It doesn't happen that often to men, that's all.

**Posts:** 11 · by **alter_nate** » Mon Dec 13, 2010 12:47 am

From my knowledge of the PUA industry there isn't much of a link between empowering men or defeating 'harmful feminism'. They like to portray their approach in that way but all pua really does is turn men into socially awkward robots. What I mean by that is that every interaction is broken down into power games and establishing dominance and all this unnatural way of interaction.

Any humanness is taken out of all interactions and this makes real connection nearly impossible. No wonder that these pick up artists who start out as lonely isolated members of society end up even more so.

**Posts:** 3015 · by **tokeless** » Tue Dec 14, 2010 10:44 am

Of course you do!! Only six eh? In my book that makes you a mere virgin... Try being real man... Find ONE girl and see what happens when you think about someone else for a change.. :wink:

**Posts:** 16 · by **Lazerald** » Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:51 pm

1 good one > 6 bad ones... hehee

**Posts:** 2365 · by **Surrey Scamp's Sidekick** » Wed Jan 19, 2011 7:23 pm

I've been posting on this forum for a few years now but don't remember reading such a ridiculous thread. I'm an intelligent Englishman but the language of this thread has left me scratching my head? What language is this and can somebody please explain what it all means. I only understood the couple of sentences by Candid......the rest might as well have been in Mandarin

Maybe a thread best closed and forgotten methinks.......

**Posts:** 2365 · by **Surrey Scamp's Sidekick** » Wed Jan 19, 2011 7:25 pm

Hey! I've never posted in 'Emotional Intelligence' before and now i'm lost. I want to go back to 'anxiety and panic attacks'.....is it left or right after the crossroads?

**Posts:** 3 · by **SkypeGod** » Thu Jan 20, 2011 3:09 pm

I have a similar situation. Can be discussed.

**Posts:** 9885 · by **Candid** » Thu Jan 20, 2011 7:45 pm

Surrey Scamp's Sidekick wrote:I've been posting on this forum for a few years now but don't remember reading such a ridiculous thread. I'm an intelligent Englishman but the language of this thread has left me scratching my head? What language is this and can somebody please explain what it all means. I only understood the couple of sentences by Candid......the rest might as well have been in Mandarin

Maybe a thread best closed and forgotten methinks.......

I agree.

**Posts:** 67 · by **Magnus Ward** » Mon Apr 25, 2011 2:20 pm

Never had a problem with women classifying me as a "thing" or an "object." Either they don't like me as an object, in which case it doesn't matter, or they're pursuing me as object, and in that case it's clear and there's the potential for mutual benefit.

Long as the terms are clear, and they always are, go right ahead and objectify me. What's the problem here? Some people use me for other physical attributes I might have. I'm not always interested in a deeper connections.

Let me know if I'm missing something here.

Magnus Ward

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