by angrywife » Mon Jan 23, 2006 4:54 pm
Dear I Love Danny,
Hi,
First of all, I want to say that anger is acceptable in NEITHER men or women, it is a self-destructive emotion that makes BOTH men and women unattractive.
Any particular reason for your frustrations or anger? Is it your present situation, or just pent up anger from lots of little things?
I will frankly say what isn't in any of the other replies. Please do not take offence. I know keeping rage bottled up is no good, but neither is self-injury("bloody knuckles"). I stop at yelling, no throwing things around either, we are not two-year olds throwing tantrums, banging our heads, etc.
I am an angry emotional mess myself. Since I do not know the reasons for your frustration, I can only offer general suggestions. Unless this is a constant, ongoing frustrating reality that keeps you perpetually in a state of anger( in that case, the situation must be completely changed), I suggest you distract yourself with constructive thoughts, pamper yourself, and spend time on your hobbies. Do not dwell on the past or the the 'bad' present or the future that will be. I know this is hard because I have been barely successful, it takes a lot of willpower to better ourselves and our lives.
But do give it a shot, 'cos you 're worth it!
PS - And meditate, if you can. It costs nothing but helps a ton