odd behaviour of a girl

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Mon May 11, 2009 6:44 pm

I'm in a training course for job like hell. There is a girl in an other class Ä± lookat her sometimes and she looks at me sometimes thepoint Ä± couldn't understand is her attitutude towards me continously changes Ä± understand this from her facial expressions and body language she sometimes seems positive sometimes negative. Anyways I'm certainly in no condition to pursue a girl this would make my situation only worse but Ä± couldn't understand this girl. Maybe some genuisity can understand :wink:

Another point is my desire to women goes to subconscious but some of its effects are visible like not feeling music, Ä± think my desire mixes with agression and causes symptoms like mental confusion and even lack of appetite sometimes but Ä± still don't feel anything towards opposite gender visible.

**Posts:** 5126 · by **Triarius** » Mon May 11, 2009 6:53 pm

my guess is that she is interested, and is trying to show it - but when you do not reciprocate she gets frustrated and angry. Hence the apparent mood swings.

or she's just nuts.

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Mon May 11, 2009 7:22 pm

I had problems talking to girls, Ä± could do that sometimes but sometimes Ä± just can't. And Ä± a have self confidence issue too. Yes she may be nuts thats an other possibility though she doesn't look so. Maybe this hellish job distressed her too. She is one of the few people like me there.

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Mon May 11, 2009 7:29 pm

seta37 wrote:my guess is that she is interested, and is trying to show it - but when you do not reciprocate she gets frustrated and angry. Hence the apparent mood swings.

enlighting as always seta now Ä± think its like the way you say, but there isn't much Ä± can do sometimes Ä± feel like an infidel to approach a girl sometimes too shy, but Ä± must point there has been times Ä± could do this. Good night.

**Posts:** 4407 · by **thefool** » Mon May 11, 2009 8:26 pm

Maybe she's stresse dout and looking for a way to blow off some steam... ;-)

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Tue May 12, 2009 7:17 pm

She still seems interested at me and flip flops, Ä±'m really not in a stable condition the best thing is to forget not to make my situation worse.

**Posts:** 4407 · by **thefool** » Tue May 12, 2009 7:26 pm

I'm curious... what exactly would be the problem in say, having a talk with ther... or even asking her on a date/outting?

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Tue May 12, 2009 7:37 pm

When Ä± can't do that Ä± can't do..in other words when Ä± started to care it gets harder, unbelievable but evil works Ä± think

**Posts:** 278 · by **Tama** » Tue May 12, 2009 8:01 pm

just tell her you're gay. (you're not, but she will get the point.)

**Posts:** 5126 · by **Triarius** » Tue May 12, 2009 8:33 pm

you can talk to her - but only on an approach to be a friend. That will show her that you acknowledge her existence (which should stop her from being so moody) but also that you're not interested in more for now.

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Thu May 14, 2009 4:54 pm

seta37 wrote:you can talk to her - but only on an approach to be a friend. That will show her that you acknowledge her existence (which should stop her from being so moody) but also that you're not interested in more for now.

I think this thing has finished Ä± don't think Ä± can talk she may be thinking Ä±'m nuts though Ä± think she is some nuts too

her actions are so odd that Ä± think Ä± can go crazy because of her. best to stay away as possible. That would be hard cos he fuels my instinct towards woman but in unsexual way this causes confusion in me. I wonder if magnesium may help keep repressed thoughts there far away from your conscious for them not to cause mental instability. I was never a gay but today Ä± felt like Ä± hate women.

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Thu May 14, 2009 4:58 pm

Tama wrote:just tell her you're gay. (you're not, but she will get the point.)

People around me are not from good parts of my country I'm even afraid when Ä± won't talk to a woman who isi nterested at me they will think Ä±'m gay and that won't be fine.

**Posts:** 278 · by **Tama** » Thu May 14, 2009 5:09 pm

i see. what part of the world are you working at?

**Posts:** 41697 · by **desperate788** » Thu May 14, 2009 5:21 pm

Now I2m at ankara capital of turkey but people are from every part of turkey. This is training period after Ä±'ll probably work at my home town but Ä± don't think Ä± can stand this hell

**Posts:** 278 · by **Tama** » Thu May 14, 2009 6:46 pm

do you have any particular hobbies to keep you distracted? music? movies?

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