I agree with you Bert_nie.
But it's fine to dress whoever I want to? There are not right or wrong ways of dressing? I mean I go to high end boutiques stores. Not everyone say I'm a slut, only those who appear as low confident or jealous I noticed because they put their focus on me. The ones who appear as well off in life, happy and confident they compliment me and don't give me negative looks I noticed and my husband noticed too. When I wear clothes they are colorful, classy, but with a touch of sexy so it's either revealing cleavage or my whole back. I never dress vulgar. Just sexy classy a bit like the actress I admire Elizabeth Hurley..her style of colorful sexy dresses on google images. I show cleavage, but with expensive and classy clothes. I like dressing that way and yes I like showing off my curves because I know that I am young now and want to show the best of me physically. I know I have to work on my focus on other people because I know it's bad to focus my energy on what others think of me or how others see me. I used to barely take showers before when I was in depression. I was getting up with sticky eyes, sweaty hair and body and put on random clothes because I ddin't care enough to focus on that. However I noticed that it's not a good sign when someone doesn't wash or groom or take care of themselves at all. So I improved by grooming and dressing well. I need to continue doing that minus caring about what others think of me. I was just always afraid to have the incorrect way or dressing when everybody has their own ways of dressing and no matter how I dress, whether I hide body parts or not ; there will always be people to judge so it's up to me to stop focusing on others. I can try to walk in a confident way and close my eyes( metaphorically) to everyone to not notice the negative energy they are trying to put on me.