Applying Mindfulness of zen to overcoming anxiety

Postby jamesstewartpa » Sat Mar 25, 2017 3:51 pm

Social anxiety and shyness, I understand. How many times you tried to stop and overcoming social anxiety but you still have to looking for a method to beat it.

You had tried but can still worry when face to the crowd, public speaking or dating and you don’t have a method to end that fettle.

Have you ever wished that you could get confident when talking with stranger through phone or show yourself in public.

What if told you that you can solve your problem by a method, a method unsuspecting – this is Zen. It sounds unbelievable, right? What and why is Zen?.

The reality, Zen has many schools. And I recommend Zen of Buddhism. Because this method thoroughly, you can looking for an inner happiness with mindfulness – I remind is Mindfulness – very important to you can reach inner happiness.

Realy Zen is mindfulness to recognize yourself in present. Ignore illusion about past and future. Forget present and focus past and future are factors make you don’t feel happy.

If you can see present as it’s happening, you can solve obstacle of mind. Not only social anxiety but also problems inside your thinking.

Social anxiety has some expression as fearful when you face to outside. Often social anxiety people feel worried and embarrassing or they think other people critical any action of them.

So, why I recommend Zen. Zen is look over process of mind. When you have bad feel, let straight look over that. You will see very clearly and marvelous of zen is make you equanimity when opposite with life’s problem.

IF YOU “LACK OF TIME” YOU STILL APPLY

You will ask: “It’s engaging but I very busy, I can’t act”. I can answer for you: “If you busy, you still use Zen as a method anytime, anywhere because reality zen is life”. Zen is a method is a side but zen is a lifestyle is another side”.

Just need to look over clearly any your act and thinking when you living, when eating, listening, speaking or any…

So, zen is simple and easy to understand. Let patience and you can reach. Bad thinking, worry about social, shyness and social anxiety – it’s not main problem. Main problem is you can or can’t look over clearly process of your mind when everything astir.

I have learned about Zen and practice it. I assure with you, you don’t need to spend any particular time to practice with zen because zen has not limited.

Pros: If you looking for a method to stop and overcoming social anxiety, Zen is a method to glean bad feel inside your mind. It’s easy to learning and understands.

Cons: Easy to understand but zen request you must patience because essence of your mind is indeterminate. So to resolve you can’t looking forward a quick method when using Zen.
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Postby Candid » Sun Mar 26, 2017 9:47 am

jamesstewartpa wrote:So, zen is simple and easy to understand.


Call me dull-witted, but "easy to understand" doesn't come across in your post. Can you clarify for me what you're recommending?
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Postby jamesstewartpa » Sun Mar 26, 2017 1:45 pm

Candid wrote:
jamesstewartpa wrote:So, zen is simple and easy to understand.


Call me dull-witted, but "easy to understand" doesn't come across in your post. Can you clarify for me what you're recommending?

I mention a method to overcoming anxiety. Reality, anxiety is an emotion. And why i recommend mindfulness to overcoming it. Mindfulness of vipassana zen is lighten that thinking - anxiety when it appear.
I wonder why people have to looking for a method to DESTROY negative emotion while when lighten it with mindfulness, it will disappear. It's "victory no need fight and destroy enemy". This is huge application of mindfulness - vipassana zen.
And why i think that zen is "easy to understand". When mention "zen", people often thinking that it's a Metaphysical method. Not true. Zen not sitting - it's comical. So, mindfulness with present to lighten your mind is the best apply
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Postby Candid » Mon Mar 27, 2017 9:09 am

You still haven't told us what it involves. What are you suggesting we actually do?

If the answer is something like: "Nothing. Just sit and Be", I'll be off.
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Postby jamesstewartpa » Mon Mar 27, 2017 1:38 pm

Candid wrote:You still haven't told us what it involves. What are you suggesting we actually do?

If the answer is something like: "Nothing. Just sit and Be", I'll be off.

I know. "Mindfulness of zen" usually must face-to-face this question. I mentioned: lighten anxiety - negative emotion when it appear and disappear. True nature of anxiety is an emotion. Any emotion you can live together when mindfulness - back to inside and observe clearly process of mind. That is method
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Postby Candid » Mon Mar 27, 2017 1:51 pm

Thank you. Most helpful.
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