I need some help figuring out what is going on with my boyfriend. He gets very angry with me when I bring up subjects/conflicts that have never been resolved. He has always put off discussing things with me with a "later" remark. But we never get around to it, so I've been somewhat ruthless lately in pursuing topics.
He calls names, sulks, walks out on me, tells me to shutup, etc. And one time he threw something at me that hit me.
That was a couple weeks ago and I immediately moved out and have not told him the location of my new apartment. I came back to him with the understanding that he needed to work on his anger problem. He agreed wholeheartedly then, but now, it's all my fault!
I'm crazy! and I bother him, and thats why he swatted at my phone and snarled like a rabid wolf to shutup when I told my friend he was in a bad mood and thats why he wouldn't speak to him...
I've been talking to his mother, a therapist, and reading several self-help books about communicating. His mom said he needs seretonin medication and he's fine; do you think he's be ok if he was on meds? My therapist and parents say that he doens't love me and to get rid of him...I'm just wondering if this is an issue he can work through with or without medical treatment? And, how do you best explain to someone their anger problem without them exploding at you because they feel incredibly defensive?
Everything was so wonderful before I refused to keep dropping all of my emotional needs and issues; I'm sick of taking the backseat!