by egor » Thu Apr 22, 2004 8:51 pm
I've given this topic some more thought, today has to be one of the worst days of my life, but its coming to an end, and its gotten more peacefull, so I can post, which is good, I guess.
Its not that I want the depression (for me, its more of just being sad), some days, very rarely, I hurt less, and I miss the sadness, because it isn't the depression that I want to go away, its me, its who I am, my thoughts, my personality, me, I am the problem, and when the sadness goes away, I remain, and so I still hurt when I say boring things, or nothing at all as is often the case, but not as much as usual, which frustrates me during these rare moments, because when I'm upset, I can cry it all out, it doesn't feel good, or help, but hurting and not crying, for me, is alot worse, which is what happens when the sadness goes away (and thus, it comes back).
I'm sorry for posting this, but, I also hate it when I have something in my life stopping me from dying. Today, for the first time in a long time, I have a reason to live, and its not a happy reason, its a reason I can't stop crying about, my best friend ('internet friend') having suffered from very severe migraines for quite a while, just discovered a vein in her brain is the cause, its clotted, and it could burst at any minute, its caused by high blood pressure and plaque, if it bursts, she dies, she could be dead now, and I'm crying as I type this, I have been crying since I found it out, and I can't leave her like that, she doesn't need me in her life, not that I'm a part of it anyway, but it would be wrong of me to end mine. She may die before she even gets the surgery, the survival rate of the surgery is high, but she may die then too, and I can't live with her death. I'm sorry, I really shouldn't be sharing this with everyone, especially in a thread that isn't mine, I apologise to everyone, but I have no-one else, or place, to say these things. I can't imagine how she is feeling, I'm so worried.
I must be a very selfish and ugly person, I guess.
Does anyone else ever get annoyed when they have reasons not to die?