Hey guys,
I need help with advice to deal with anger in the work place. My boss is your typical micro managing ego driven authoritarian individual who accepts all success and blames at any failure, yet makes all the decisions while disregarding any input from those around him. I am finding it increasingly difficult to manage my outbursts when dealing with him and its becoming a problem. I've tried all forms of ways in order to adjust his way of dealing but this only proves to last a few days of him being over the top nice and supportive before we end up back with the same situation. He will have meetings with me in which I'm instructed to tell clients varieties things, usually at the determent of the relationship I have built with my client. I will then object and state why I feel this would be a bad move. I am then berated as being not a team player and that he's my boos and I must obey him. I will then against my better judgment write what I have been told to the client. My manager who told me to do this will then write a message with all members of the firm attached chastising me for taking such steps. I have come to the end of my tether and taken steps to prepare a meeting with all managers to discuss this situation. I need help in how I should prepare myself so that I simply do not explode and turn into some nagging tattletale....I love my work and I can't simply change my job, so how do I get myself through this. Any advice would be much appreciated, but please only well thought out constructive advice please, I'm already at my whit’s end I don't need an entire forum of people kicking me while I'm down.
Thanks for the help.