I hate people

Postby apple4u » Sun Aug 23, 2015 3:19 am

I hate people. I have been abused and blamed by almost everyone in my life. I am old and tired of it. No one respects me. I try to be normal and nice, but people get ticked off at me for stupid things. I am a person who has a conscious and do not need to be taught things by everyone. Everyone always takes the other person's side. I am treated like crap daily. I want to hurt people. I want to slap them and kick them and beat them up. Men yell at me and women yell and people say racist things daily. They don't do it to everyone just me. I go crazy and I look bad. Always people teaching me to have compassion and to be more understanding. Even stupid children attack me, complaining about their lives thinking it impresses me. I cannot talk sometimes I am so filled with rage. I bet I hate some people in this forum, but I will get blamed for it too as if I started it.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Aug 23, 2015 1:03 pm

Moving forward, what are your options?
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Postby apple4u » Mon Aug 24, 2015 12:01 am

I don't know, are you asking me to think for myself?
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Postby apple4u » Mon Aug 24, 2015 12:01 am

are you annoyed?
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Mon Aug 24, 2015 12:42 am

There is no alternate or hidden meaning behind my question.
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Postby Cpt Yossarian » Mon Aug 24, 2015 4:00 pm

apple4u,

Suicide is an option. In reality there are no problems. Everything is a delusion. I, for one. like your posts. Good does of honesty.

If you wish more I recommend reading or listening to,

Alan Watts
Robert Wilson
Terence McKenna

Regards
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Postby Kipling » Tue Aug 25, 2015 12:52 am

Cpt Yossarian » "Suicide is an option" :( & so is Moving forward :)
One life One chance :idea:
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Postby Danacovert82 » Sun Aug 30, 2015 1:04 am

I have this issue too. I think all the time that people will hate the things I do, and I always get told things I already know, and get angry about it. What you need to do is talk to the people that are making you angry, and see what the cause is. And move on. Suicide is never the choice to get out of this life. You've got to try all avenues before resorting in things like that.
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Postby laureat » Sun Aug 30, 2015 4:13 am

when you think too much critical it is possible to delude oneself to think something bad is happening even if situation is very good
when a friend of mine adapted a dog she was too much afraid from, and she was calling me all the times to make sure about it

She could not understand that she got herself a useless dog that was thrown away because it had no human aggression, it had no instincts like territorial, protection and so its owner had no interest to keep it ,

On that case my friend had to learn how to trust dogs and learn to see what was really happening,
people make a small chiwawa look big like a rotwailer, but that is only psychological, it is not the reality
The reality is that a chiwawa is a poor little f*^*k

I am using this only to tell you how our psychology works
Now the problem is that when someone gets into that negative state of the mind, dont know how to surrender on it and to lead oneself to a positive state, relaxed, playful, excited, to enjoy

The first step you need to make is to change how you feel about others, and that can happen when you learn to have a good time

For example if you come to this forum every day, based on your experiences you will have , it will make you feel somehow about the forum, it could be positive it could be negative...

That depennds 100% on you, not on the others
no matter what members say you can choose to ignore what you dislike and still can have a good time
So you are the one who is deciding will you have a good experience or a bad experience on this forum..

So its not about what others say, it is about how you approach and how you respond
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Postby Leo Volont » Fri Sep 04, 2015 2:28 pm

apple4u wrote:I hate people. I have been abused and blamed by almost everyone in my life. I am old and tired of it. No one respects me. I try to be normal and nice, but people get ticked off at me for stupid things. I am a person who has a conscious and do not need to be taught things by everyone. Everyone always takes the other person's side. I am treated like crap daily. I want to hurt people. I want to slap them and kick them and beat them up. Men yell at me and women yell and people say racist things daily. They don't do it to everyone just me. I go crazy and I look bad. Always people teaching me to have compassion and to be more understanding. Even stupid children attack me, complaining about their lives thinking it impresses me. I cannot talk sometimes I am so filled with rage. I bet I hate some people in this forum, but I will get blamed for it too as if I started it.


THERE! Everybody! I have been trying to tell You All, that ANGER is NOT an EMOTION but an Action. The EMOTION behind the Actions of Anger are HATRED!

And HERE, FINALLY, is my Proof! This Person, who obviously is demonstrating a lot of Angry Action in His or Her Life, blames it Quit Specifically on simply HATING just about every aspect if His or Her Social Interactions. God! I would ‘hate’ to be a waitress taking his order… a barber cutting his hair… a Service Rep taking his complaint… just So Much Seething Hatred.

This Person does not have an Anger Problem. It is a HATE problem.
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Postby laureat » Fri Sep 04, 2015 4:58 pm

Leo Volont wrote:
apple4u wrote:I hate people. I have been abused and blamed by almost everyone in my life. I am old and tired of it. No one respects me. I try to be normal and nice, but people get ticked off at me for stupid things. I am a person who has a conscious and do not need to be taught things by everyone. Everyone always takes the other person's side. I am treated like crap daily. I want to hurt people. I want to slap them and kick them and beat them up. Men yell at me and women yell and people say racist things daily. They don't do it to everyone just me. I go crazy and I look bad. Always people teaching me to have compassion and to be more understanding. Even stupid children attack me, complaining about their lives thinking it impresses me. I cannot talk sometimes I am so filled with rage. I bet I hate some people in this forum, but I will get blamed for it too as if I started it.


THERE! Everybody! I have been trying to tell You All, that ANGER is NOT an EMOTION but an Action. The EMOTION behind the Actions of Anger are HATRED!

And HERE, FINALLY, is my Proof! This Person, who obviously is demonstrating a lot of Angry Action in His or Her Life, blames it Quit Specifically on simply HATING just about every aspect if His or Her Social Interactions. God! I would ‘hate’ to be a waitress taking his order… a barber cutting his hair… a Service Rep taking his complaint… just So Much Seething Hatred.

This Person does not have an Anger Problem. It is a HATE problem.


when someone abuse you, you may get HURT
when you get HURT, you may start to THINK
when you start to THINK, you may start to HATE
when you start to HATE, you may become ANGRY
when you become ANGRY, you may become AGGRESSIVE
when you become AGGRESSIVE you may become violent, abusive, vicious, brutal, savage, cruel, vicious, ferocious, brutish, barbaric, barbarous, wicked, murderous, bloodthirsty, cold-blooded, callous, heartless, ruthless, merciless, sadistic; More
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Postby Kipling » Fri Sep 04, 2015 5:49 pm

Well, I feel for U apple4u :cry: unloved,unwanted & unappreciated :(


You can Always hate me if your ever stuck :idea: . . Honestly, I don't mind :shock:

Hope this posting makes U feel less rejected :)
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Postby johnusacitizen » Wed Sep 09, 2015 7:17 am

Sorry, I didn't read all the posts, but I read yours...

People have their own mad ideas they adore and won't let go of.

Adore LIFE, for the possibilities of change you meaningful LONG to see, and have seen in HISTORY if you bothered to read and comprehend the impossible that's already happed..

UNDERSTAND the cruelty and madness, and CREATE better. It's a hard work. Your work.

I love so many people whose thoughts are insipid at best, my own family are quite mad... At least they are not cruel.

They don't attack me, but I'm rather a bad target--I hit back with sound reason, which they can't comprehend.

Ever growing understanding of BETTER (DECENT HUMAN BEING) wins over wishful MAKE-BELIEVING every time. There is so much room to grow in understanding, while make-belief is a dead end doomed to end with our parents..




Understand the madness, and BE THE BETTER HUMAN EXPRESSION they ever could be, as of course they are insane.
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