come on people .. please give me some feedback itl help me

**Posts:** 18 · by **blackpooolmoz** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 7:26 pm

i know my problem seems trivial in the scheme of things and even seem small when i view others problems ... but its taking me over and its pathetic but i am so anxious about this situation , see my previous post !!...i go from angry to suicidal to my senses and then scared again .... i cant handle this situation being so important to me /..... its only love ???? why cant i say ... oh i will just chill and wait ..or shel miss me .... its her loss .... why am i so strong in every aspect of my life ... but this situation with this person .. ive had lots of grlfriends .. so how has this one got to me so much .. that i cant let go ... i now know why people jump off buildings ..i know the darkness they felt ... its hard to write this stuff cos its feelings at this moment and when u read ur own posts . as many on here comment , u feel like a nutter ....!! and wish ur thorts had just stayed inside ur head..

**Posts:** 8044 · by **satanstoystore** » Thu Jan 12, 2006 7:44 am

frankly I think it was an accident what happened. You sound sincere. The most I read about is you have a scary look. My ex's last 2 boyfriends actually did serious damage to her. Anyhow, honestly it sounds like she recharges her drama batteries. Let's think about this. How many other men would sign up for this? maybe I'm cold but there's no way I could do what you've done. Give her some time and meanwhile- learn to detach yourself. attachment does not equal love.

**Posts:** 18 · by **blackpooolmoz** » Thu Jan 12, 2006 9:55 am

satanstoystore wrote:frankly I think it was an accident what happened. You sound sincere. The most I read about is you have a scary look. My ex's last 2 boyfriends actually did serious damage to her. Anyhow, honestly it sounds like she recharges her drama batteries. Let's think about this. How many other men would sign up for this? maybe I'm cold but there's no way I could do what you've done. Give her some time and meanwhile- learn to detach yourself. attachment does not equal love.

thanks satans toy store .....it was an accident i needed someone to give a thort .. my anger is inside and its frustrating ..but wudnt come out to the girl i loved it wud only protect me id like too believe ....altho it scares me !! yes her dad use to hit her and portrayed a scary face b4 doing that .. ne way .. ur rite ... my friends who ive shared this with say the same ... they wudnt sign up for her situation and baggage .. or she cant be that gud !!! will she realise just wat shes losing tho .. if i leave her alone or will i be another who in her mind dessserted her ... thats why im kinda being a pest ... so any tips for detachin myself ..? maybe uv been here.. and explain re charge her drama battries .. i think i get the gist but id like to be sure what it means ... and thanks for takin time out to reply ... my head and heart are messed she does it for me when she is gud ... and the gud times werer increasing ....ta

**Posts:** 1543 · by **fanella** » Thu Jan 12, 2006 4:15 pm

hi i replied to your other post...........

think you need to take the time to work on yourself and then re start the/a relationship when you are more stable and able to control the way your feeling im sure if she loves you then she will still be around when you have done this its not gonna be forever just a short time to improve what can be the rest of a great life

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