EQ?

Postby bobbyb64 » Sat Mar 07, 2015 10:06 pm

Hi Guys,
I just joined and I m not sure if this would be the right place to post this but I did anyways.
I had been told that I have a strong EQ by people and I even been in work meeting where I
ve noticed the attorneys of the opposing party fixating their chairs to concentrate on my moves and all.
I normally pick up all kinds of signals and signs from the smallest move someone does when talking to me or expressions they make. And I can at least tell some abnormalities in their behaviors by the facial or eye contacts as well.
I also have a fairly good memory with which I can remember almost all special moments to a point where people get amazed with how far back it goes.
And this goes with phone numbers which the ones that I am willing to remember have stayed in my memory forever. some from 40 years ago. family and friends home numbers that even they themselves don t recall.
I can memorize phone numbers mainly right as I m told without writing them down and those that I don't wish to remember can get avoided right there and then.
I didn t think it was a big deal but recently somehow I hear a lot of people mentioning that this a photographic memory that I have. Cause I do picture the numbers as I m told in my head and that s where they stay right there and then.
Same thing goes with car plates and colors and even body damages and small things on cars.
Can anyone tell me if what people tell me is true or is this just the same with everyone?
I appreciate your tips and comments.
Many Thanks
PS
I seem not to miss anything going on around me to the point that people even tell me that and that I should have become a detective and I get named Barretta Bob or Rainman for remembering numbers and all which I find it all pretty amusing!
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Postby jek_Yll » Sun Mar 08, 2015 10:26 am

You capacity of memorization don't come from you EQ , you're lucky to have such an memory. It looks like a photographic memory, you're not the one but you have a good one lol. Does you memory looks like that eidetic memory (look at Wikipedia, I have no right to send the url) ?
I don't have it, so common is it not, for me it based on hearing and feeling.

Ps : sorry for my basic English :)
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Postby bobbyb64 » Sun Mar 08, 2015 3:55 pm

Thanks Jek for your response and sharing your info on these matters. I like your sense of humor. lol. I will look up eidetic.
Thanks again for sharing.
By the way ,nothing wrong with your English. Sounds all good to me.
PS : explain if you would about your hearing and feeling . How that works for you.
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Postby jek_Yll » Sun Mar 08, 2015 4:47 pm

It's difficult to explain, I never remember global memories, it's more many details . A place with the smell, the luminosity, sounds. For example I won't remember the image of a truck but I will hear his sound and smell, See some colour also. I have a mix of many details and with that I will recognise the truck when I see it again.
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Postby bobbyb64 » Sun Mar 08, 2015 9:35 pm

Wow! So that sense of smell. One of the five senses that matters a lot. And about details , you must have heard the expression "God is about Details":
Can u explain more about Luminosity?
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Postby jek_Yll » Sun Mar 08, 2015 11:22 pm

I don't know what mean "God is about Details" ^^'
Luminosity : how I can explain that, I will say it's shadow and sunlight, also the reflections, for example bastian.blog.lemonde.fr/files/2008/02/reflet.1202468731.jpg (can't post a url)
I will remember the light and the sun, water's reflect (only) and where are the stones, it will be a black form .
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Postby bobbyb64 » Tue Mar 10, 2015 4:00 pm

it means details are important.
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Postby thedailytabloid » Wed Jul 22, 2015 8:03 am

Hey bobbyb64,

I wrote a very nice article about EQ.
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Postby niceguyforever » Tue Aug 04, 2015 11:22 am

what if u only believe you can do all this but in reality if you gotten tested you would have failed the tests .
example with facial reading there can be a thousand meanings for one facial reading don't tell me u can do this. your saying u can pick a needle out of a hey stack . if you don't believe me go do a test and I guarantee you will fail the tests
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Postby Cpt Yossarian » Tue Aug 04, 2015 11:24 am

BJ?
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Postby DianaCamomile » Mon Dec 07, 2015 10:49 am

You have a great memory and very attentive to details.
I wish i could remember all that phone numbers like you. =)
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