Firstly, Hello everyone,
I have not really visited this site for quite some time, however I am back now and not necessarily with the same problems as before.
Having suffered anxiety depression and OCD (for which I was diagnosed, councelled and medicated) I now appear to have developed some kind of Obsession with my food intake.
I won't go into why I became depressed... It's a very long story, but I will begin by saying that at some of my stages of anxiety depression I became very obsessional with spending money, which in turn caused more worry, hence more depression. I recieved CBT for this and I managed quite well.
Other issues included; paranoia, obsessive thinking, reclusive, a turbulent relationship etc
I haven't self harmed in the way of cutting for at least 2 years, however, I believe restricting food intake is a form of it.
I am no longer taking Citalopram (which is how I found this site 4 years ago) or recieving councelling and I am fortunate to be in a job that I enjoy, yet has it's stresses!
It just seems as though the old traits are kreeping back in and they are manifesting in food obsession.
I weigh myself 6-10 times a day, if I am 8st or below I'm okay and can eat 1 decent meal. Anything above that and I panic and need to starve until it's gone down. The fear of becoming overweight is immense. I feel so massive and bulky if I'm not the correct weight. I feel unattractive, yet there are ladies I work with who are not "slim" but I think they look beautiful and well.
My boyfriend says every conversation we have includes me discussing food or weight and he is tired of it.
He is convinced I don't eat enough, but it's not like I feel massivley hungry.
I will starve when my weight is up and sometimes I will binge when it's down. When I binge I can't stop and that is what I fear, so most of the time limit my intake.
I have made myself vomit after meals with him (meals I have to keep him happy)! But again, not for at least 3 months.
I have personality disorder, for those who believe in it! There are ongoing debates as to it's existence!
Is this just another manifestation of my former issues like I think it is and does anyone have advice?
Thank you for your time and for letting me vent!