Please help need advice ASAP don't know what to do

**Posts:** 1 · by **Kokomo** » Sat Jan 21, 2017 1:58 am

Hi guys I had sexual intercourse with another man who I've known for 25 years he was actually my first boy friend my husband consented as my ex was our sperm donor,when I had sex it meant nothing to me and I have no feeling for this what so ever,but my ex has feelings for me and is still in love with me,I appranently had a dream last night saying I have feelings for my ex and once my party is over I am going to leave my hubby for him,I have told my ex from day dot he is not to have any feelings towards me or express them in any way,I have told him he is not to contact me via phone which I have blocked his no and he is not to contact me via FB which I have also blocked him from,Now cause I've had a stupid dream that meant nothing my hubby is walking out of our marriage,what I want to know if will hypnosis help me get rid of this guy out of my life,it's destroying my every day life cause I don't have any recollection of the dreams I am having,it's only what my hubby has said,Hubby has said to me I need to sort my heart and head out and get rid of this guy comply out of my life and work out who I want to be with,I've told hubby it's him I love n want to be with but he still thinks I have feelings for my ex which I don't I told
My ex to pretty much f........off n leave me alone I want nothing to do with him my ex has turned on hubby n myself and has disrespect us on so many levels and I just HIM out of my life and out of my memories and out of my stupid dreams PLEASE HELP MY MARRIAGE DEPENDS ON THIS AND IF HYPNOSIS WILL WORK AND HOW THE HELL I CAN GET THIS GUY OUT OF MY LIFE AND MEMEOIRES AND DREAMS ONCE AND FOR ALL

**Posts:** 12131 · by **Richard@DecisionSkills** » Sat Jan 21, 2017 8:32 pm

No. Hypnosis is not a cure.

There is a huge, huge difference between a "sperm donor" and a "boyfriend". A boyfriend means an intimate relationship, it means feelings developed. The fact you chose an ex-boyfriend to be a "sperm donor," doesn't all of the sudden remove the romantic nature of the previous relationship.

Your hubby consented to you having sex with a previous romantic relationship. He consented for you to have sex with a person you had feelings for. That is not consenting to you having sex with a platonic "sperm donor," other than the fact your ex boyfriend deposited sperm inside you.

In hindsight, your husband most certainly regrets his decision. At the time it probably sounded like a good idea. Framing it as a "sperm donor," made it sound unromantic, but the unfortunate reality is you had sex with a previous lover.

So no. Hypnosis is not the cure.

**Posts:** 6 · by **jeinert** » Tue Jan 31, 2017 1:18 am

I agree with Richard, Hypnosis is not the cure. But you might want to research dreams. We all have crazy dreams. They say that dreams are a way for our subconscious mind to release things from the day, but it does it via metaphors. That is the language of the subconscious mind. We all have crazy dreams all the time, sometimes we dream of an ex-lover, or even of having sex with someone we just met today for the first time. It doesn't mean we are unfaithful or that we would even consider being unfaithful. It's just the subconscious mind using metaphors to clear up some stuff from the past. I would suggest you and your husband do some research on dreams, so you both may learn that dreams are necessarily something you are secretly wishing would happen, nor do they necessarily mean you still love you ex.

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