Hi
I need some help in an important aspect of my life.
I consider myself to be fairly popular; I have lots of friends, and
when I talk to someone(male/female) I haven't met before, we
generally become close.
*WHEN* I talk to someone, meaning, I don't do that a lot. Right now,
when I meet up with some friends, I have this little bubble wherein
all my social life happens. Nothing, except my friends, can get in
there. I rarely meet new people, and I seem very unnaproachable
because of the dynamics within this "social bubble".
I want to change this. At the moment, I don't have the
motivation/balls to act and pull people inside that social bubble.
So, my question is twofold: anyone have any help on
1- becoming motivated to meet new people, and really LOVE the
process
(meaning, I'd be thrilled to get up and have a chat with strangers)
2- being fearless in the process.
I know there's no quick fix for this kinda thing, but I need to
settle this problem.
Thanks!