Really pissed off

hey ashwin... .... i think that u should take time to understand them and make them understand u as well... .... talk to them peacefully ... ... they are after all ur family and will surely understand u ... ... don't feel so bad about things so fast... ... take sometime and give everything sometime... ...

Ashwin wrote:I live with my aunt and grans in the city.... And in this house there are only two bedrooms one for my grandfather and the other one is just there.. My aunt and her son use it sometimes other than that we all sleep in the living room.... So in December I got sick and stayed in this room till I got better... After that I jst used that room. Now almost 2 months later.... A few days ago they asked me if want to sleep outside.... I said no... Then the next day without even asking me they just put my stuff ( blankets... Etc) in the living room and started using that room again.

The though of someone doing that to me seems unfair and it really feels bad.

Okay, Ashwin,

This is how I understand your story.... you got REAL SICK, and so Everybody Agreed it would be Best to QUARENTEEN you in the Second Best Room in the House. Then you got better. Then they asked you NICELY if you didn't think it time to move out and be the Same You that you were before your tragic illness. You said "NO". Well, that must have sounded like Complete Nonsense to them, since you No Longer had Any Reason to Hog the 2nd Best Room.

So, they Did what they were going to Do anyway, and Gave you the Benefit of the Doubt on realizing how grasping and selfish and generationally misplaced your answer of "NO' was.

REALLY, you seriously wanted to throw yourAUNT out of a room to make it for yourself!? I think you are lucky that she did not just strangle you in your sleep...