dubbyah wrote:So my question is, in your experience, what did you notice at the 3 month mark, 6 month mark, 1 year mark, 1 year 3 month mark, 1 year 6 month mark, and 2 year mark, in terms of your thoughts becoming clearer, not feeling spaced out, being able to concentrate and think in depth, not being confused and feeling BURNT OUT, as so many people report, and as I have personally experienced even up to 8 months quitting not feeling totally better.
I know people who have gone 6 months and still haven't gotten the full cognitive repair they desire and need. I tell them if you smoke for so many years, it's going to take more than 6 months for a full rebuilding. Do you agree with this? Does it get better and better past the 6 month mark? Does it get exponentially better as time passes? The THC is out of the body after 6 months, but I believe that after a few months is really when the real repairs begin. Was wondering if you could comment on 'rebuilding time' and things of this issue.
Often people are told that they will be 'totally back to normal' in 3-6 months, and when they definitely aren't (after having smoked for 20 years nonstop), they go back to smoking again because they think things are doomed!
It's tragic that people don't realize that 3 months isn't enough time. What do you think is enough time? Thoughts? Please try to be as detailed/lengthy as possible
That's originally why I wanted to PM you about this, because I want as much information as you can possibly bestow on the essential issue of physiological, neurological and neurochemical repair-time! Not so much do I mean in terms of getting new behavioral habits and ways to generate pleasure/happiness sober, things in the realm of the day to day, but more I mean in terms of the brain itself rebuilding structurally and biologically, the brain fog dissipating, the memory issues getting better, the vague confusion and cloudiness that SO MANY report even up to years after they're done smoking! Thanks muchly!!!
You raise valid questions, Dubbyah. Remember that I am one person, giving my own experiences. Although I am highly interested in brain plasticity and psychology, I am an expert on neither of these. For those individuals who smoked for over ten years (21 in my case), I would suggest they might experience the following stages in recovery. (Please note that, although I relapsed many times in the past, this time I did not ingest any cannabis during my recovery.)
1st: 30 days (most of the THC is cleared out) and you feel relatively clear-headed when compared to being chronically stoned or burnt out.
2nd: 100 days (3-4 months) brain feels 'normal' but mood swings and depressive thoughts are still present.
3rd: 200 days (6 months) a breakthrough on the magnitude of making the initial 30 days; a fog lifts from the brain and psyche.
4th: 300-400 days (one year) a sense that the addiction is behind you; cravings are virtually nil; you feel like a non-drug-user, with all of the normal thought processes and emotions that accompany human existence in the modern world.
5th: two years and things keep on improving. You shift focus from dealing with cravings and thoughts about addiction to ways to improve your life. This could be through personal growth, relationship work, or other goals that imbue your life with meaning.
I agree that six months is a marker of things really starting to improve, but it is all relative: one person's normal may be another person's dazed. The keys to my success revolve around expressing myself honestly (via this forum), pursuing increased health (exercise and diet), and taking stock of what ingredients must be part of my life to make it truly satisfying (relationships, connection to nature, stimulating thoughts, inner feelings of well-being). Maintaining a positive outlook helps buoy you through some of the darker times: rather than dwelling on what was lost, focus on what you have gained.