grrr i hate being so moody and angry

**Posts:** 56 · by **Anon14** » Sat Sep 24, 2005 8:42 pm

i really hate being moody and angry all the time its probably because nobody listens to me and loves me i get angry over the smallest things ...when im angry i cut ...and when i watch the blood flow through my arms it gives me satisfaction a reliefe and then i yell at everyone and everyone thinks im abornormal ...i have really low selfesteem and i hate being in public i hate seeing people sorry its sounds awful but really people make me worse especially ladies my age im so old victorian like there more clubby like so im so simple and well u know it goes on and on and on it hurts i hate myself the way i look everything im hating life some things explained in depression topics.

**Posts:** 5 · by **ce1** » Sun Sep 25, 2005 10:21 am

most of the time the hidden motivation of anger is fear. we fear that we won't get what we want, that we will never be in control of our lives and so on.
anger is a way to release feelings of frustration. just don't do anything that involves violence or self-mutilation. it's hard but we should avoid making situations worse. sometimes we have to look outside ourselves and do away with negativity. we shouldn't let situations affect us. don't waste too much time and energy on the negative side of things. be strong and have faith in yourself.

good luck.

**Posts:** 56 · by **Anon14** » Sun Sep 25, 2005 12:44 pm

thankyou but
yes I fear most of the time and get angry for no reason …
its just awfully hard trying to over come these negative thoughts ive had these thoughts since I was very young and they wont let go of me
*tears*
its just so easy to say than doing

**Posts:** 5 · by **ce1** » Sun Sep 25, 2005 3:35 pm

don't expect anything from people. people will continue to disappoint us and we'll always feel unloved or rejected. but we can learn how to survive emotionally whatever happens to us. it's our responsibility to love and care for ourselves, in spite of others.

**Posts:** 56 · by **Anon14** » Sun Sep 25, 2005 7:38 pm

Hey thanks for ur response
I know I shouldn’t expect much from people and es there is always disappointment
I know but if u don’t mind me asking how did u survive this crap im going through ?

**Posts:** 3 · by **kt2u** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 11:25 am

Don''t really understand well. It is probably genetics.Nothing to be blame anyone. Just probably how you react to what happens. Someone did to you. Oh God, you must really do somethings. That's is usually our feeling. But feeling changes everytime and God don't. let Him be your guiding light in everythings, good or bads. More tolerable this ways.

**Posts:** 56 · by **Anon14** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 6:02 pm

kt2u wrote:Don''t really understand well. It is probably genetics.Nothing to be blame anyone. Just probably how you react to what happens. Someone did to you. Oh God, you must really do somethings. That's is usually our feeling. But feeling changes everytime and God don't. let Him be your guiding light in everythings, good or bads. More tolerable this ways.

hiya thanx for posting
i know but the thing is well its hard to explain i just am a moody and angry person its just because of life being a twat to us ...

**Posts:** 5 · by **ce1** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 6:29 pm

i can't tell exactly how. sooner or later you just have to believe you can overcome your own negative feelings. you're still young and you have a whole life ahead of you. you just have to realize you can still live a good life.

**Posts:** 56 · by **Anon14** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 6:36 pm

ce1 wrote:i can't tell exactly how. sooner or later you just have to believe you can overcome your own negative feelings. you're still young and you have a whole life ahead of you. you just have to realize you can still live a good life.

i dunno
its been ages like this ..
its hard being bloody young ...
and i hate it

**Posts:** 5 · by **ce1** » Wed Sep 28, 2005 11:20 am

i remember feeling that way, but the truth is you won't be a teenager forever. just live through it. that's the least you can do.

signing off

**Posts:** 56 · by **Anon14** » Fri Sep 30, 2005 5:15 pm

-sigh-

thankx for ur help

**Posts:** 3 · by **kt2u** » Thu Oct 06, 2005 10:39 am

How are you . Amazingly God made us very different and this this differences really make us beautiful .Not what is on other point of view but God. He is in control , you know!Maybe, life is hard on you when everythings seems not well with you. People tends to get depress often like the rain comes and go , we can never predict the whether alsolutely!! bye...

**Posts:** 56 · by **Anon14** » Sat Oct 08, 2005 2:27 pm

kt2u wrote:How are you . Amazingly God made us very different and this this differences really make us beautiful .Not what is on other point of view but God. He is in control , you know!Maybe, life is hard on you when everythings seems not well with you. People tends to get depress often like the rain comes and go , we can never predict the whether alsolutely!! bye...

umm thanks im still crap but thnx

**Posts:** 3 · by **kt2u** » Mon Oct 10, 2005 5:59 am

Just telling you all this may not actually help you.But I don't really can do much especially when I myself is strugling over matter that i can't control. As I more self esteem especially when sucessfully done some useful work , I will be much happier and people around me tends to react better. It is just my experience. That's all.

**Posts:** 5 · by **ALESSIA** » Thu Oct 20, 2005 6:49 am

it is something unknown for me, a alwas get angry on the people i love,or which are close to me . I cannot understand this, i feel too free with them- so i am nervous on :?:

grrr i hate being so moody and angry

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