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Postby MichelleKingman » Sat Oct 25, 2014 12:42 am

Beloved wrote:I feel more like they are predators and they are testing to see if I'm prey. . . .:D


Hey Beloved,

In a way I agree with you. I have noticed that people are very telepathic and if I have a victim ego going on then I will attract people who have a predator ego going on. This can be resolved on a case to case basis by clearing your own emotions and coming into the present moment.

It is so important to take control of what you can and that's you. The more you concern yourself with the way others feel and act, the less you can do about it. If you focus in on changing yourself, then you can take the reigns and change your circumstances.

Hey Bert_Ernie Thanks for your input. I think we all have a lot to work on and we can be empowered and help to empower each other if we start to observe where we can make the change... it's much easier said than done because of how pride always sneaks in to ruin everything...
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Postby JuliusFawcett » Sat Oct 25, 2014 8:56 am

All suffering is a message to us to love ourselves more, love other people more or love this moment more
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Postby Beloved » Sun Oct 26, 2014 7:39 pm

MichelleKingman wrote:. . .then I will attract people who have a predator ego going on.

Unfortunately or otherwise, I have found a way to benefit from this.

Wearing a sheepskin draws would-be predators from out of the woodwork.
Once they show themselves and commit to a tactic I take off my sheepskin. In the movies they might call this deus ex machina.

The Game Theory idea of a Dominant Strategy would say, "Be a wolf." I'll have to research whether one should conceal or display this fact.
http://pointsandfigures.com/2013/07/10/ ... -illinois/

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